RISEUP: Voices From the Frontlines

Relationship Edition: Throwaway Love


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Welcome back to RISEUP: Voices from the Frontlines – Relationship Edition, where we turn breakdowns into breakthroughs and help you build connection without combat.

In this episode, we're flipping the script on today’s “if they wanted to, they would” love culture and digging into the real reason so many couples feel disconnected—it’s not a lack of love, it’s a lack of translation.

🔥 You’ll hear:

  • Why love can feel invisible when it’s spoken in an unfamiliar language
  • How emotional bids, miscommunication, and unspoken expectations sabotage intimacy
  • A real-world case study from the RISEUP community that turned a quiet marriage around
  • The difference between transactional love and transformational love
  • What science (and the Gottmans) say about turning toward your partner—even in the small stuff
  • Why codependency and control can feel like love, and how to know the difference

  • This is the episode for anyone who’s ever asked, “Do they even care?” but deep down suspects the answer might be more complicated than “yes” or “no.”

    💣 Spoiler Alert: Sometimes, the problem isn’t absence—it’s translation.

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    RISEUP: Voices From the FrontlinesBy Krista Phoenix Fee