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A difficult conversation can be uncomfortable and still be
In this episode of RISEUP Relationship Reset, Dr. Krista Fee
She also addresses what happens after a vulnerable conversation, when follow-through matters more than a polished apology.
You will hear practical language for beginning a hard conversation and a three-question reflection you can use on your own.
The episode distinguishes ordinary conflict from intimidation or coercion. If speaking honestly brings fear or punishment, prioritize individual support and a safety plan that fits your circumstances rather than a joint repair exercise.
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If you need confidential support with relationship abuse or
You may have a personal code you have never written down: “I
In this RISEUP Responders episode, Dr. Krista Fee examines
The episode connects cognitive approaches with practical
Write four short lines:
(1) the result that keeps showing up
(2) the moment where the pattern begins
(3) the old rule in your actual words
(4) a revised rule that keeps the value without requiring the same
Add one if-then response you can use when the next request or
For practical, culturally informed conversations with
RISEUP PRO | Dr.Krista Fee | October 5 2026 |
In “Responsibility Carries Weight,” Dr. Krista Fee looks at
You will leave with four moves you can use this week: name
Leadership is visible when the room gets uncomfortable. The
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The Cost of Constant Readiness: When
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You made it home.
The uniform is off. The shift is over. The calls are done.
…and your body is still scanning the room.
Still tracking movement.
Someone you love walks toward you.
They’re not a threat.
And something in you tightens anyway.
Not because you don’t care.
Because your system hasn’t come down yet.
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We’re not talking about burnout.
We’re talking about what happens when readiness becomes your baseline
You’ll hear:
This is the part no one trains.
🧠 What Most People Miss:
Your system isn’t broken.
It’s doing exactly what it was trained to do.
The problem is…
And over time, that doesn’t just affect you.
It affects the people waiting for you on the other side of the door.
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⚡ If This Hit:
You’re not the only one living this way.
You just might be one of the first willing to actually look at it.
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We’re back with Part 2 of our live Q&A—going even deeper into the
“This is how we’ve always done it.” How to transform rigid systems without losing your values.
What to do when a leader’s discretion causes harm: repair, accountability, and outcome responsibility.
How to prevent burnout while leading change.
How to move teams from grievance to growth without minimizing pain.
These aren’t hypotheticals; they’re the daily fires leaders stand in.
🎧 Listen now on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6IpBgf3j2RC4pKVMKxMkx6?si=3a827a5dc06c4790
📅 Book a call with Krista to see how this program can transform your leadership or schedule your organization’s custom training series: https://calendly.com/riseupphoenix/compass
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Live from the frontlines of leadership, this conference-style Q&A
We field questions from school administrators, nonprofit directors, city leaders, business executives, and first responders. Every answer draws on the book and this series: nervous-system regulation, transparent communication, fair consequences, and systems that heal instead of harm. You’ll leave with
If you’ve been craving practical, compassionate answers to high-stakes leadership dilemmas, this episode is for you.
🎧 Listen now on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6IpBgf3j2RC4pKVMKxMkx6?si=3a827a5dc06c4790
📅 Book a call with Krista to see how this program can transform your
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When words no longer work, what then? Part 2 moves from philosophy to practice. We define the peaceful warrior: a leader who pursues peace relentlessly, prepares for conflict soberly, and refuses to dehumanize, even under pressure. You’ll learn how to set nonnegotiable boundaries, protect people and mission without collapsing into rage, and keep dignity intact when
We also dig into de-escalation and the psychology of conflict, how to downshift nervous systems, interrupt the “us vs. them” spiral, and make principled decisions under fire. And yes, we talk about training: RISEUP offers a full de-escalation and conflict toolbox for leaders and teams who want real-world skills, not just ideals.
This episode is your field guide for leading through confrontation
🎧 Listen now on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6IpBgf3j2RC4pKVMKxMkx6?si=3a827a5dc06c4790
📅 Book a call with Krista to see how this program can transform your
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Can we remain nonviolent in a violent world? In this episode, we wrestle with one of leadership’s oldest, hardest questions. We trace the arc from Gandhi’s "ahimsa" and King’s “soul force” to Churchill’s refusal to appease fascism and Mandela’s road from resistance to reconciliation.
This isn’t just a theory for a classroom; it’s the daily paradox leaders face when they must hold dignity as the compass while confronting real harm.
We’ll explore what nonviolence can accomplish, where it meets its limits, and how trauma-informed leaders avoid naïveté without surrendering their humanity. You’ll also hear the two questions every leader must answer before the crisis hits: What cause am I willing to die for? And what cause am I willing to take life for? If you don’t know, someone else may decide
If you lead in government, education, nonprofits, faith communities, business—or at home—this conversation will equip you to pursue peace while preparing to protect what matters.
🎧 Listen now on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6IpBgf3j2RC4pKVMKxMkx6?si=3a827a5dc06c4790
📅 Book a call with Krista to see how this program can transform your
The Bloodstained Microphone
Leadership in an Age of Outrage, Influence, and Uncertainty
In today's world, influence has never been easier to obtain.
With a smartphone, a social media account, and an audience willing to
In this thought-provoking episode, Dr. Krista Fee examines the growing gap between influence and leadership through the lens of trauma psychology, neuroscience, crisis response, and real-world leadership experience.
Using current events, including the Karmelo Anthony case, public unrest,
Listeners will discover:
• Why certainty and truth are not the same thing
At its heart, this episode is not about politics, ideology, or taking sides.
It is about leadership. It is about responsibility. It is about what happens when ordinary people are given extraordinary influence and the choices they make with it.
Because the microphone is never neutral. Every word lands somewhere. Every message influences someone. Every movement impacts real lives.
The question is not whether we have influence. The question is whether we understand the responsibility that comes with it.
Hosted by Dr. Krista Fee
Executive Director, RISEUP Phoenix Trauma and Crisis Institute
Where neuroscience meets leadership for high-stakes environments.
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On today's episode we will lean into the dark side of language leaders often exploit to manipulate, control, or divide all in the name of fear, power, and corruption.
We explore the us vs them model for dehumanization, the distance between contempt and atrocity and i'll give real world safeguards to avoid these language traps.
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