Are you feeling the strain of family estrangement? You're not alone. Join us for today's episode of Relationship Real Talk, where we dive into this challenging topic with our guest, Dr. Diana Robbins. As a licensed professional counselor based in Houston, Texas, and a PhD graduate from Regent University, Dr. Robbins has a wealth of experience and a personal story that resonates with many.
Family estrangement—when family members go through extended periods without contact or involvement—is becoming increasingly common in today's culture, including within Christian communities. Understanding and addressing this issue is crucial for fostering healthy relationships and healing.
Dr. Robbins' Personal Journey
Dr. Robbins grew up in a Christian home where her father was a pastor deeply committed to biblical truths. Despite this strong spiritual foundation, seeds of estrangement were sown early on. Her family lacked a framework for resolving conflicts and supporting one another in disagreements, which led to deep-rooted issues over the years.
As Dr. Robbins matured, she became aware of these unhealthy patterns and took on the role of addressing them within her family. Unfortunately, her attempts at resolution were not well-received, especially by her mother and sister. When her father passed away at the young age of 26, the importance of maintaining those remaining family relationships became even more significant to her.
Despite a strong sense of family duty and commitment to Christian theology, which emphasized forgiveness and reconciliation, Dr. Robbins struggled to find ways to mend the rift with her mother and sister. This journey has been profoundly painful, highlighting the complexities of family estrangement.
Living Through Estrangement
Dr. Robbins shares how estrangement felt during her teenage years and how it evolved into adulthood. She emphasizes that estrangement is not just about physical distance but also emotional and spiritual separation, which can be incredibly challenging to navigate.
We hope this episode helps you understand that you're not alone in your struggles with family estrangement. If you relate to Dr. Robbins' story or have your own experiences to share, please leave a comment or question below. Your input can provide support and solidarity to others facing similar challenges.
Don't miss out on this heartfelt and insightful episode. Join us as we explore the realities of estrangement and seek God's guidance for healing and reconciliation.