We do not rise to the level of our goals, We fall to the level of our habits. AKA we fall to the level of our boundaries. If you desire purity, what are you doing NOW that is going to allow you to achieve that goal? Boundaries in relationships propel you for a freedom that others cant walk in because of the absence of boundaries in their own relationship with the other. Where are you drawing the line? Going all in for Jesus in relationships often goes against our human nature and desires, but we have to realize that His way is the best way!!!!