An earthly relationship should reflect the kind of relationship that we have with God, clear and intentional. If the person you are pursuing or is pursuing you isn't making their intentions clear, that is a red flag. Stating your intentions at the beginning of the relationship, allows there to be no room to guess. If you feel like you are constantly guessing how the other person feels, don't be hesitant to ask them where they want the relationship to go, and if you are not on the same page, you have your answer!