Consensual sex can be enjoyable for all parties and it’s a natural part of human life. However when it is not consensual, sex will leave a lot of pain and trauma for someone who was an unwitting participant in a sexual act. There’s more to consent than someone, in most cases a woman, saying no, it is a bit crazy that we have to have this conversation, but clearly we need revisit it. Smash spoke to Mara Glennie from the TEARS Foundation