There’s a difference between not seeing eye to eye sometimes, and someone needing to be dragged away.
Don’t get me wrong. If something seemed too easy or was just handed to you it’s probably no good, but I don’t subscribe to the whole starving artist thing. Not everything needs to be so hard, especially relationships; I said it in a previous episode- I don’t know who made that rule, but relationships are not supposed to be hard. If it feels like work, you’re with the wrong person.