Relationships Refocused

Essence and Anthony discuss the dynamics of marriage, particularly in relation to financial habits and mindset. They talk about the importance of trusting in God and each other, and how their individual financial attitudes complement and balance their relationship. The episode emphasizes the significance of unity in marriage, both spiritually and financially, and how couples can work together to overcome differences and challenges.------------------------------------------------

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In this episode of Refocused, A&E take a deep dive into self-perception, particularly examining the concept of being a 'quitter.' The hosts engage in a candid discussion about their past decisions and how they align with their personal and spiritual growth. They challenge negative self-labels, exploring how such perceptions can impact one's life and choices. The conversation underscores the importance of reassessing one's self-image in light of God's guidance and the truth of one's actions and intentions. ------------------------------------------------

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For this episode they on the critique of societal norms regarding dating and relationships. Essence and Anthony challenge various 'lists' that define ideal partners, arguing these are often superficial and not aligned with Christian values or common sense in general. They stress the importance of spiritual alignment and personal growth over materialistic or external factors in relationships. The discussion also touches on issues like judgment, societal pressures, and the importance of understanding one's self-worth and values in the context of dating. ------------------------------------------------

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Anthony and Essence delve into the concept of waiting and trusting in God's timing. They discuss the challenges of waiting for God's intervention in various situations and emphasize the importance of patience and persistence in prayer. The conversation includes personal anecdotes and reflections on how waiting on God's timing, while challenging, can lead to growth and deeper faith. They explore how waiting can test and strengthen one's trust in God, and the peace that comes from this trust.------------------------------------------------

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This conversation revolves around understanding and managing our emotions. Anthony shares a personal experience about feeling angry at work, leading to a broader conversation about identifying and acknowledging emotions. They explore the importance of emotional intelligence, especially in recognizing different emotions like frustration and anger. The episode emphasizes the significance of prayer and seeking God's guidance in dealing with emotions, discussing how emotions provide valuable information and should be handled in a spiritually mature way.------------------------------------------------

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Essence and Anthony discuss their challenging year, emphasizing the importance of faith and resilience. They delve into personal hardships like financial struggles and car issues, reflecting on how these experiences tested their faith. The episode focuses on their commitment to God's work and ministry despite difficulties, and highlights moments of divine provision and learning. They stress the value of perseverance and trust in God's plan, sharing insights on the complexities of living a faith-driven life.------------------------------------------------

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Anthony, growing up in St. Louis always wandered around life with a semi-awareness to what is going on in his life and in the world. Navigating through college, career, entrepreneurship the real attention to detail did not come into play until Christ became Lord for him at 24, and was then magnified upon his marriage and introduction to father. Being a Father, Husband, pastor, employee, entrepreneur, has been a blessing given everything for him is centered around Christ.  Essence is born and raised out of Kansas City, MO. With a huge heart to serve, lead, nurture, and create she has given a lot of time to mentoring children, delivering spoken word poetry, and lifting those around her who need wise and Christ centered advice. Between all the hats that she wears she still finds the time to be an excellent wife and phenomenal mother.

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We have heard the adage of "Loving Thy Neighbor" all our lives, but how do we truly apply this, and when is it used out of line?

The Story of the woman at the well (John 4: 7-26)Then a woman from Samaria came to draw water. Jesus said to her, “Give Me a drink”— 8For His disciples had gone off into the city to buy food— 9The Samaritan woman asked Him, “How is it that You, being a Jew, ask me, a The Jews considered Samaritan women ceremonially unclean. Samaritan woman, for a drink?” (For Jews have nothing to do with Samaritans.) 10Jesus answered her, “If you knew [about] God’s gift [of eternal life], and who it is who says, ‘Give Me a drink,’ you would have asked Him [instead], and He would have given you living water (eternal life).” 11She said to Him, “Sir, The woman’s response is due to the fact that “living water” was the normal description for running water. She probably thought that Jesus was referring to the underground water source that fed the well. You have nothing to draw with [no bucket and rope] and the well is deep. Where then do You get that living water? 12Are You greater than our father Jacob (renamed Israel in Gen 32:28) was the son of Isaac, grandson of Abraham and father of the twelve sons who established the twelve tribes of Israel. Jacob, who gave us the well, and who used to drink from it himself, and his sons and his cattle also?” 13Jesus answered her, “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again. 14But whoever drinks the water that I give him will never be thirsty again. But the water that I give him will become in him a spring of water [satisfying his thirst for God] welling up [continually flowing, bubbling within him] to eternal life.”15The woman said to Him, “Sir, give me this water, so that I will not get thirsty nor [have to continually] come all the way here to draw.” 16At this, Jesus said, “Go, call your husband and come back.” 17The woman answered, “I do not have a husband.” Jesus said to her, “You have correctly said, ‘I do not have a husband’; 18for you have had five husbands, and the man you are now living with is not your God does not regard cohabitation as marriage. Marriage is a binding, legal covenant between a man and a woman. husband. You have said this truthfully.” 19The woman said to Him, “Sir, I see that You are a prophet. 20Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you Jews say that the place where one ought to worship is in Jerusalem [at the temple].” 21Jesus replied, “Woman, believe Me, a time is coming [when God’s kingdom comes] when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. 22You [Samaritans] do not know what you worship; we [Jews] do know what we worship, for salvation is from the Jews. 23But a time is coming and is already here when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit [from the heart, the inner self] and in truth; for the Father seeks such people to be His worshipers. 24God is spirit [the Source of life, yet invisible to mankind], and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth.” 25The woman said to Him, “I know that Messiah is coming (He who is called Ch

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Show Notes:

It is very easy this day in age to confuse servitude with misrepresented opportunism. The question is, how do we avoid this? Let's find out in today's episode.

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Biography:

Anthony, growing up in St. Louis always wandered around life with a semi-awareness to what is going on in his life and in the world. Navigating through college, career, entrepreneurship the real attention to detail did not come into play until Christ became Lord for him at 24, and was then magnified upon his marriage and introduction to father. Being a Father, Husband, pastor, employee, entrepreneur, has been a blessing given everything for him is centered around Christ.

Essence is born and raised out of Kansas City, MO. With a huge heart to serve, lead, nurture, and create she has given a lot of time to mentoring children, delivering spoken word poetry, and lifting those around her who need wise and Christ centered advice. Between all the hats that she wears she still finds the time to be an excellent wife and phenomenal mother.