So much of motherhood — and so much of life — happens in the ordinary.

In this episode of Relative Moms, Pam reflects on a season of motherhood that once felt small, repetitive, and even a little unseen… and how time has revealed just how holy those ordinary days truly were.

From school drop-offs and sports practices to open doors, packed lunches, and being “just” a stay-at-home mom, Pam shares how God was present in the routines that didn’t feel impressive at the time — and why the work that often goes unnoticed is never insignificant to Him.

If you’ve ever wondered whether the quiet, behind-the-scenes seasons of your life matter…
If you’ve ever felt unseen, unsure, or like you didn’t have much to show for your faithfulness…
This conversation is a gentle reminder that God meets us right where we are — in the ordinary — and that His presence is woven into the everyday.

With time, motherhood teaches us things we could never fully understand in the early days.

In this solo episode, Pam reflects on the lessons she’s learned through years of parenting, releasing expectations, and walking with God through changing seasons of family life. From believing that being a good parent meant full closets and a stocked pantry, to realizing that presence and connection matter far more than perfection, this conversation is an honest look at how perspective grows with time.

This episode isn’t about advice or doing things “right.” It’s about grace—for what we didn’t know then, and for what we’re still learning now. Pam shares personal stories, faith-filled reflections, and gentle encouragement for moms in every stage, from young motherhood to grandparenting.

If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re doing enough, worried about getting it wrong, or wished you could go back and reassure your younger self—this episode is a reminder that God has been faithful all along, and that you’re still becoming.

Pull up a chair, settle in, and join this quiet conversation about motherhood, growth, and grace.

As a new year begins, it’s easy to feel the pressure to start strong, do more, and have it all figured out. In this solo episode, Pam offers a gentle invitation to slow down and step into the new year with grace instead of striving.

With honest reflection and encouraging Scripture woven throughout, Pam reminds moms and grandmas that God isn’t asking for perfect plans — just faithful steps. This conversation speaks to women in every season of motherhood, from young moms in survival mode to grandmas walking alongside growing families.

If you’re feeling tired, overwhelmed, or unsure of what this new year holds, this episode is a reminder that you don’t have to carry it all alone. God’s grace is sufficient, and He will meet you in each step ahead.

Settle in, take a deep breath, and join Pam for a quiet, encouraging moment to begin the year rooted in faith, peace, and hope.

Christmas, like podcasts, rarely look like we imagined it — and this episode proves it.

In this candid, chaotic, and laughter-filled conversation, Pam and Cayden are joined by daughter and sister-in-law Zoe to reflect on the Christmases we just lived through. The moments that were sweet, the ones that were hard, and the ones that weren't exactly what we planned. 

Between kid interruptions, (yes, there may be a toy piano in the background) real-life mom moments, and plenty of grace, Relative Moms talked about what went well, what they loved, what didn’t quite work, and what they’ll do differently next year. From shifting expectations and family rhythms to learning how to laugh through the noise, this episode is a reminder that meaningful memories are often made in the middle of the mess.

If your Christmas felt less like a Hallmark movie and more like controlled chaos — this one’s for you. Pull up a chair, embrace the interruptions, and remember: real life is where the good stuff lives.

As Christmas draws near, many moms and grandmas find themselves tired, overwhelmed, and quietly wondering if they've done enough.  

In this solo episode of Relative Moms, Pam offers a calming reminder for the final stretch of the season.  With the wisdom of a mom who's hosted many Christmases and the tenderness of a grandma who now sees what truly matters, Pam speaks encouragement to the women carrying the invisible work of the holidays.

This episode is an invitation to release perfection, lay down pressure, and make room for rest.  It's a gentle pause to remember that Christmas isn't about performance - it's about presence.  Jesus meets us not in what's polished, but in what's real.

If you're feeling weary, behind, or stretched thin, this episode is for you.  Pull up a chair, take a deep breath, and be reminded: you've done enough.

This Christmas, what if we made space for what matters most? Join Pam for a warm solo conversation about simplifying the holidays, honoring changing family traditions, and keeping Jesus at the center.
She opens up about nostalgia, grief, and growth, then offers practical, heart-centered ways to slow down the hustle, serve together, celebrate simply, and savor the moments that truly matter.
A gentle, faith-rooted episode for moms and grandmas navigating the joy, chaos, and tenderness of Christmastime.

In this cozy Christmas special, Pam is back with a solo episode - coffee in hand and heart full - as she reflects on what the holidays look like in this season of both motherhood and grandmotherhood.  With Cayden busy navigating life with littles, Pam takes the mic to share an honest and joy-filled look at how Christmas shifts as your kids grow, marry, build their own traditions, and bring grandbabies into the mix.  

From letting go of perfection to embracing optional traditions, from evolving mom-guilt to the magic of messy cookies and pajama clad grandkids, Pam opens up about the bittersweet beauty of this stage of life.  She offers five practical ways to keep Christmas peaceful and joy filled when you're the mom AND the grandma.  Plus she gives gentle encouragement to anyone carrying the weight of holiday planning on their shoulders.

Whether you're in the thick of raising littles, guiding adult children, or loving on grandkids, this episode is a reminder that the heart of Christmas isn't perfection - it's presence, connection, and grace.  

The moms from Mum Speak have rebranded their old podcast and come back with a new (and hopefully better) version.  Slightly sleep deprived mom of two littles, Cayden, and her seasoned mother-in-law Pam reintroduce themselves and dive into why their new podcast will be filled with more family, more faith, and more keeping God at the center of everything.  

In this episode, a solo episode recorded by mother-in-law Pam, we explore some useful Bible verses for times when moms feel overwhelmed, overtired, and overstressed.  And let's face it those feelings happen a lot in motherhood.  Caring for your family can leave you feeling worried or anxious that you aren't doing enough or aren't enough.  These verses from Psalms and Matthew can help you find the calm again by trading your worries for God's peace.  

So grab a cup of coffee or snuggle your babe with your headphones and let's talk about some ways to deal with being overwhelmed.  

In this short update episode, Cayden and Pam explain what life events led them to accidentally taking a year off from podcasting, and what their plans are for bringing the podcast back.