Step three of AA had me delving into my need for control, resisting change, codependency, and trying to find gratitude when I find that difficult. In this episode, I dive into the third step and what renouncing yourself, giving yourself over to god, and love can do in your life.  

 

Key Takeaways: 

 

[5:06] Step three of AA

[10:21] Accepting all your losses, resisting change, and trying to stay in control 

[18:35] Renouncing myself for attention and validation 

[22:10] The things people seek love for 

[24:32] Being codependent 

[27:49] Doing good deeds because you want to 

[30:04] False sacrifice and holding onto control 

[35:04] Trying to find gratitude and religion being based on following rules

[38:48] Being radically accepted for nothing 

[41:10] Surrendering is a negative concept to me

[42:32] Accepting our past and our mistakes

[46:59] Renouncing yourself and giving yourself to god 

[50:47] Working on self forgiveness 

[51:33] True and unconditional love 

Resources:

 

• Breathing Underwater

 

 

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