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What causes conflict in relationships? For most of us, the tension comes from having very different experiences of the same event. But those alternative realities don’t have to break us apart. In fact, those contradictions can bring us closer together if we learn to express our experience in terms of feeling rather than judgement.
James Creighton is a psychologist and relationship consultant with 50-plus years of experience working with couples and conducting conflict resolution and communications skills training all over the world. He is the author of several books, most recently publishing Loving Through Your Differences, a guide to help couples find fulfillment THROUGH—rather than DESPITE—their differences.
On this episode, James joins Emerald to explain how conflict in his own marriage called him to the study of communication in relationships. He describes how each one of us interprets events in light of our own experience, resulting in contradictory realities. Listen in for insight around the danger of disowning your own experience and learn why it’s advantageous to express your feelings rather than make judgements.
What You Will LearnHow James’ own marriage called him to the study of communication
How each person interprets events in light of their own experience
What inspired James to write about conflict from alternative realities
How we generate reality as much as we experience it
How to hold conflicts around values in tension vs. opposition
The danger in disowning your own experience
Why it’s advantageous to express feelings rather than judgements
The challenge James faces in dealing with his wife’s dementia
Connect with James CreightonJames’ Website
Connect with Emerald GreenForestCreative Age Consulting Group
Emerald’s Website
Emerald on LinkedIn
Emerald on Twitter
Emerald on Instagram
Email: [email protected]
ResourcesLoving Through Your Differences: Building Strong Relationships from Separate Realities by James L. Creighton PhD
Getting Well Again: The Bestselling Classic About the Simontons’ Revolutionary Lifesaving Self-Awareness Techniques by O. Carl Simonton MD, Stephanie Matthews-Simonton and James Creighton PhD
This episode is sponsored by the Creative Age Consulting Group. Men - Is it time NOW for you to make your mark? Visit timetomakeyourmark.com to apply for an invitation-only consultation.
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What causes conflict in relationships? For most of us, the tension comes from having very different experiences of the same event. But those alternative realities don’t have to break us apart. In fact, those contradictions can bring us closer together if we learn to express our experience in terms of feeling rather than judgement.
James Creighton is a psychologist and relationship consultant with 50-plus years of experience working with couples and conducting conflict resolution and communications skills training all over the world. He is the author of several books, most recently publishing Loving Through Your Differences, a guide to help couples find fulfillment THROUGH—rather than DESPITE—their differences.
On this episode, James joins Emerald to explain how conflict in his own marriage called him to the study of communication in relationships. He describes how each one of us interprets events in light of our own experience, resulting in contradictory realities. Listen in for insight around the danger of disowning your own experience and learn why it’s advantageous to express your feelings rather than make judgements.
What You Will LearnHow James’ own marriage called him to the study of communication
How each person interprets events in light of their own experience
What inspired James to write about conflict from alternative realities
How we generate reality as much as we experience it
How to hold conflicts around values in tension vs. opposition
The danger in disowning your own experience
Why it’s advantageous to express feelings rather than judgements
The challenge James faces in dealing with his wife’s dementia
Connect with James CreightonJames’ Website
Connect with Emerald GreenForestCreative Age Consulting Group
Emerald’s Website
Emerald on LinkedIn
Emerald on Twitter
Emerald on Instagram
Email: [email protected]
ResourcesLoving Through Your Differences: Building Strong Relationships from Separate Realities by James L. Creighton PhD
Getting Well Again: The Bestselling Classic About the Simontons’ Revolutionary Lifesaving Self-Awareness Techniques by O. Carl Simonton MD, Stephanie Matthews-Simonton and James Creighton PhD
This episode is sponsored by the Creative Age Consulting Group. Men - Is it time NOW for you to make your mark? Visit timetomakeyourmark.com to apply for an invitation-only consultation.