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Welcome to the Relationships Secrets Made Simple for Queer Women show.

 

A podcast about teaching queer women how to improve and strengthen their relationship with actionable steps, with me, yours truly as your coach.

 

10 Perspectives to a Better Relationship Series 

 

We're back at it again, if you didn't know, we are well into our community wide challenge...   

  

10 Perspectives to a better relationship...   

 

It's week 5 and.....

 

And we are seeing terrific momentum from our queer community. 

 

Because Amidst the quarantine.. Amidst the chaos of 2020.. and Amidst the uncertainty...  

 

We all want to grow in our relationships, to make them stronger, to be of support to our partners... 

 

To show up better for each other... 

 

You can join here corinneconway.com/10perspectives.

 

Seek out a mentor 

 

If you're struggling with tough emotions in your relationship this season, seek out a mentor, someone that will help you identify what you're feeling and what you're struggling with and how to turn it around. In this series, 10 Perspectives to a Better Relationship, I will walk you through 10 Perspectives that will do just that and you will learn how to identify and shift perspectives together for the better.     

 

And as a bonus, you can get my free accompanying workbook so that you work through and process in real time, and join my free community of queer women who are on the journey with you.. 

 

If you want some help improving your relationship, with insight that is meant  to help keep you strong, help you when it's most difficult... with tools to help you make change in your life, take this journey with me by joining, go to corinneconway.com/10perspectives.

 

Big Insights

 

Hey dreamer, I'm honored that I get to guide you to building the relationship of your dreams. You're listening to the relationship secrets made simple for queer women show.

 

I hope you're doing well.  

 

I want to talk about this idea that we all have parts of us that run completely on autopilot, that we are leaning on to get through this season.  

 

And, some folks might say, Corinne, my relationship is fine, we're fine. Okay. Well, let me ask you, how's your connection in quarantine? Number from 1-10, how connected are you to your partner in this tough season? How has your communication been? How's your sex life? If you're below a solid 7 then there is a distinction between being together and growing together that I invite you to explore.   

 

7 is, we are doing okay. Checking off the boxes. 

 

6 is, we have our arguments here and there but we are okay (with reserved feeling in stomach). 

 

5 is, we're ok this week. Last week we spent most of our nights in separate rooms. 

 

4 is... well you get the point... 

 

Some of us are numbing away from tough conversations, unaware of what is keeping us from having an exceptional relationship amidst the chaos, amidst what's happening in the world. 

 

And so I want to talk to you about how this might not be serving you if you're struggling in your relationship right now.   

 

No question---the uncertainty that we are facing is so difficult with circumstances that you may not be able to control right now.   

 

Raise your consciousness about what isn't serving your relationship

One of the most important things I can share with you about showing up well for your partnership, for your marriage is, In this season, is to raise your consciousness about what isn't serving your relationship well right now. And by that I mean certainly don't wait to evolve the story of your marriage of your partnership until after the pandemic is over. Don't let the perspective of uncertainty keep you from walking into a better season right now.  

 

Perspective matters about how you show up and by that I mean to raise your consciousness to what is bottlenecking and sinking you into a harder season.  

How are you going to raise your consciousness to growth? To a higher perspective.

Answer these questions for yourself...

 

(A) when you prepare for the next steps in this season what energy will you fill in your environment to create an exceptional relationship? 

 

(B) The insignia of marriage, the strength of marriage is tied directly to your coping mechanisms. And so perspective is so important when coping in difficult times. How will you show up? 

 

Thank you for being a part of this wonderful community that can encourage each other to be better together.  

 

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