Contributing to our families, communities, and society is not an option but a responsibility. The term toxic masculinity is tugging at mans nature, is it okay to be strong is it not okay, am I powerful am I not powerful. In the effort to correct the Ill fit behaviors of some men in the past weve deconstructed the true essence and nature of what it means to be a man. Boys today have less ideas of what being a man is and this makes it easier to remain a boy as most men are resigned to do. We must improve ourselves as men and in doing so improve those around us by being an example