Energy + Hours (formerly Grow Like a Mother)

Rest vs Self-Care: Why You’re Exhausted Even When You “Do the Things”


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Today, we’re diving into one of the most important concepts I’ve taught this season — the difference between rest and self-care.

This idea came to me in the middle of a conference presentation for moms, and once I shared it, the response was so strong I knew it deserved its own podcast episode.

If you’ve ever tried to “self-care your way out of burnout” and wondered why it didn’t work, this episode is going to feel like a lightbulb moment.


We’ll explore:

  • What rest actually is (and why it’s passive, nervous-system soothing, and foundational)

  • What self-care actually is (and why it only works when you’re already regulated)

  • How to know which one you really need

  • The “cup level” analogy that helps you decide your next best step

  • My favorite tools: intuitive self-care and Time Confetti

  • How to patch your energy leaks instead of endlessly bailing water out of a sinking canoe

  • And where to start if you’re exhausted, overwhelmed, or craving balance


This is a quick, powerful episode designed to restore clarity so you can restore yourself.

  • The real difference between rest and self-care

  • Why rest comes first

  • What to do when you feel the early signs of burnout

  • How the 7 Types of Rest framework helps you identify what you’re truly missing

  • Why self-care “doesn’t work” when you’re depleted

  • A new way to visualize your energy levels

    • Practical next steps for working moms, entrepreneurs, students, and neurodiverse brains

    🔗 Episode Mentions + Links7 Types of Rest Episode https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/tired-you-might-be-resting-wrong/id1601675882?i=1000736551084

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    How do you carve out rest and self-care?
    Is it easy? Tricky? Does one feel more accessible than the other?


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    Energy + Hours (formerly Grow Like a Mother)By Jill Wright, Time Management Expert