I'm grateful I got the chance to work with David Marque this week. I learned lot from him this week but have learned from him in so many ways like his Youtube Leadership Nudges, and also learned from people who learned from him so I felt a bit Stars-truck When we wasn't working we talked … Continue reading Self-identity and how that can blind us, in my case on arrogance →

Set things Right – whats better than right? it's easy to forget that what's right most often is a matter of worldview. Ensure to separate facts, observations and measurements from labels Both are needed to do better that lasts. We need to figure our own values, "our definition of right" before enrolling others towards change, … Continue reading Setting things right – whats better than right? →

Act as if – Do, measure, evaluate, experiment Failure, might not work as part of your identity, where it's easier to learn from failure. not fake it to you make it – where it's really hard to emotionally handle failure Most really successful people did not make ONE plan and that worked out most tried … Continue reading Act as if →

How well are you tending to yours? How aware are you that they're at the helm of everything you do, and everyone you meet. What do you expect to see on the other side of your effort? How often are you right? Dont expect anything to happen differently without you doing differently. Dont expect things … Continue reading Expectations are the fuel and engine of perceptions →

Its easy to forget when a decision is actually made. When we're stuck fighting the system of not embracing a YES fully, or not setting a clear and strong boundary, aka said NO to something when it mattered more, than when we're standing knee-deep into it. How can you help yourself trace back when a … Continue reading Decision traceback – delayed feedback and results, learn to embrace yes or no when it matters →

How do I know this is the idea to go all in for? I hear this from clients and people often, in different forms like: Please tell me THIS is the idea to go all in for Is this THE idea to go for? Please tell me I'm at the tipping point, that it will … Continue reading How do I know this is the idea to go all in for? →

Teach Dare to do things that might not work Don't wait for school or anyone else to teach those that matter to you the most important things like daring to do things that might not work, daring to do things that society doesn't understand. Daring to listen to yourself thru a dip, quit and give … Continue reading Teach Dare to do things that might not work →

Beware Fake Paths, illusionary progress and blockers Learn to listen to yourself, including when to, and when not to, others

Algoritms- why they matter so much to your relationships The chain of algoritms is woven around all you meet, all day long. Your reputation preceede you in all your first contacts There is no escape. Use it or get used by it.

Christmas is coming – talk to your people. We are all rusty and emotional during this holiday, be kind to yourself AND those around you. Start talking now, before tickets get [too] costly and while dates and items are easier to set and get.