Rethinking Dads

Welcome to Episode #10 of Rethinking Dad! 🎙️

"Curating the shit out of their experience"

With this one phrase, Kevin simplifies unschooling in a nutshell, setting the stage for an eye-opening exploration of this unconventional approach to education.

In this episode, join us as we delve into the world of unschooling, addressing the questions you've been itching to ask:

✅ What exactly is unschooling, and how does it differ from conventional homeschooling?

✅ Walk through our personal journeys as two unschool Dads, navigating the uncharted waters of unconventional learning.

✅ Discover the valuable lessons we've learned along the way – the highs, the lows, and the unexpected triumphs.

✅ Reflect with us on our proudest moments and, equally, the moments we might wish we'd approached differently.

From raising "littles" to experiencing the echo of an empty nest, this conversation aims to be a guiding light for those curious about the unschooling path. While we acknowledge that unschooling isn't a one-size-fits-all solution, we believe it played a crucial role in nurturing independent, well-adjusted, kind, and overall good human beings.

Whether you're a seasoned unschooling advocate or just dipping your toes into the concept, we invite you to join us on this insightful journey.

Thanks for tuning in, and as always, thanks for Rethinking Dad! 🌟

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Welcome to Episode 9 of Rethinking Dad! 

In this episode, we dive deep into the intricate dance of work-life balance. In this open and candid conversation, we explore the delicate art of truly balancing our professional endeavors and the life beyond the office walls.

Like all the episodes of season one, we are simply wanting to start the conversation and see where it leads us. As we say...we want to "pull at the thread", and in this conversation the "thread' is work-life balance.

We challenge the simplistic notion of dividing our existence into two distinct realms: work and life. Instead, explore how these spheres seamlessly intertwine, creating a dynamic interplay that defines the modern dad's experience.

In this open dialogue, we discuss the struggle of balancing passion with the demands of work, and the sincere desire to be more present in our families' lives. From navigating career aspirations to fostering meaningful connections at home, this episode delves into the challenges and triumphs of redefining the traditional concept of work-life balance.

We hope you find this heartfelt and insightful conversation meaningful and it helps you uncover for yourself what it means to be a "Rethinking Dad"!

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There’s no question that Dads over the last few generations have changed dramatically.

Join us as we embark on a journey through the evolution of fatherhood over the past 70+ years. 

In this insightful episode, we explore the profound transformations in the role of Dads across generations. From our WWII granddads to how we are evolving, watching our kids grow up and acknowledging the diverse factors that have contributed to this shift.

From the influence of television and movies to the lasting impact of our friends' Dads during our formative years, we delve into the myriad elements that shape the essence of modern fatherhood. This reflective exploration encourages all of us to examine both the positive and challenging aspects we inherited from our own fathers, unraveling the intricate tapestry of our growth in just a single generation.

Perfection is an elusive goal for any Dad, but the effort to navigate the complexities of parenthood is what defines us. 

Join us as we candidly discuss the highs and lows of the fatherhood journey, embracing the imperfections that make each dad unique. Whether you're a seasoned parent or a curious friend, this episode invites you to share in the collective experience of rethinking and celebrating the ever-changing role of Dads. 

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In this thought-provoking, new episode of Rethinking Dad, we engage in a compelling discussion about what we refer to as "the parenting continuum." This "continuum" explores the cavern between partner parenting and the the more control-focused style of parenting.

With partner parenting, parents provide children the freedom to shape their own lives. This style is designed to allow children to develop their own intuition and guide their path from an early age.

"Living a life of self-design can only be designed by the self," - Kevin

While we are not here to judge or condone either path, this conversation is simply designed to be a journey of reflection around our own decisions as Dads. Just asking where we all lie on this spectrum, and how that might have evolved is powerful act of self-discovery.

This episode prompts a critical reflection on parental responsibilities—should parents mold their kids according to their ideals, or is the true responsibility guiding them towards self-discovery and personal molding? 

We love challenging conventional notions and sparking contemplation on the profound impact of our parenting choices and we hope this episode of "Rethinking Dad" leaves you with fresh perspectives on the ever-evolving role of being a Dad.

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All Dad’s struggle. And those struggles vary wildly. Yet some struggles float to the surface more often.

In this latest episode of Rethinking Dad, Michael and Kevin dive into the intricate tapestry of parenting and being a father by sharing a few personal struggles from over two decades of being a Dad.

While every Dad faces a unique set of trials in raising their kids, certain struggles tend to surface more frequently. Join us as we candidly explore the highs and lows of the parenting landscape focusing on a few universal struggles.

One significant challenge highlighted is the delicate art of not taking things personally during those heated arguments with our children. Kevin opens up about his personal battles, providing a raw and relatable perspective on this common aspect of parenting.

But the conversation doesn't stop there – Michael shares his early parenting days of struggling with comparison. We explore the pitfalls of measuring our success as Dads against the seemingly flawless lives depicted by others on social media or in real life.

As Dads, we’re always trying to get better, but we both agree there’s still shit to fix. 

Come share a laugh with us, empathize with our stories, and, above all, reconsider the very essence of parenting. We invite you to enjoy this authentic exploration of the highs, lows, and beautifully messy in-betweens on "Rethinking Dad."

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Welcome to another episode of Rethinking Dad! In this insightful and thoughtful discussion, hosts Michael and Kevin delve into the minds of 17-year-olds, unlocking a treasure trove of wisdom that transcends generational gaps.

Recently, Kevin embarked on a journey of curiosity by posing a profound question to his son and his friends. The question that sparked this enlightening conversation was:

"If you were given the stage and could speak to all Dads, what advice would you give them?"

Prepare to be captivated as the young voices share their eye-opening perspectives, revealing a tapestry of insights that redefine the landscape of parenting. These profound observations not only shed light on the challenges faced by dads but also offer a roadmap for those seeking new direction and guidance in their parenting journey.

Throughout this episode, you'll discover five invaluable nuggets of wisdom that will help you rethink your role as a Dad. Gain a fresh perspective as we explore the profound advice given by these young minds, providing a powerful lens through which you can view your parenting journey.

Don't miss out on this enlightening conversation that will reshape the way you approach fatherhood. After all, in the ever-evolving landscape of parenting, embracing change is key, and these young voices might just have the insights you've been searching for. 

If you like what you're hearing, thank you in advance for leaving us a 5-star rating and a written review. We ask for this because it helps other Dads discover our podcasts. (the world of podcasts, like many things is driven by ratings and reviews)

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"...show up in every moment, and create an environment where you can show up in the moment. And if substances of any sort, or story are keeping you from the moment, then get that shit outta here!"

Welcome to episode #4 of Rethinking Dad. This episode, Michael shares how he is driven by a quest for clarity and fixing his shit. This quest is all about walking away from substances, like alcohol for the next 90 days.

As Rethinking Dads, Kevin and Michael reflect on the profound impact this choice will have as Michael aims for heightened presence. The episode starts with a meandering story that starts on the streets of Morocco and explores Oliver Anthony's quick fame and a resolution about clarity that occured while hiking in Mexico.

Together, Kevin and Michael, dive into the accountability aspect of Michael's decision and how Kevin has done similar periods in his past.

As we've said, being a Rethinking Dad starts by looking at ourselves and being willing to fix our shit. The role of Dad is important to our children, our partners and our entire family.  While this decision might not be right for you, remember that we are never here to preach or judge, but only to share and create the same space for you to share and ponder.

We both thank you so much for listening to this episode of Rethinking Dad!

If you like what you're hearing, thank you in advance for leaving us a 5-star rating and a written review. We ask for this because it helps other Dads discover our podcasts. (the world of podcasts, like many things is driven by ratings and reviews)

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In Episode #3 of "Rethinking Dad," Kevin dives into a heartwarming and relatable moment in every dad's life: the day you have to let your child go out into the world on their own. 

He starts with a touching quote: "I don't leave my babies... My babies leave me." It's a sentiment that hits home for any parent.

In this episode, Kevin shares his own recent experience of saying goodbye to his 20-year-old son in Portugal. He recounts his emotional "empty closet" moment from Michael's story (Episode #1) when he watched his son ride away in an Uber, leaving a void in his heart. It's a scene that many dads can relate to.

The conversation quickly turns to how we hold on to these precious moments as our children grow up. Kevin and his co-host share personal stories that remind us all of the importance of being present in our kids' lives. Even with one son living on the other side of the world, Kevin still has two at home, serving as constant reminders to cherish every moment.

If you're a Dad or know a Dad who could use a dose of inspiration and a reminder that you're not alone in this journey, make sure to hit that "follow" or subscribe button on your favorite podcast platform. These stories in every episode are meant to connect with you, make you smile, and help you navigate the wonderful, challenging world of fatherhood. 

And may you too, become a Rethinking Dad.

If you like what you're hearing, thank you in advance for leaving us a 5-star rating and a written review. We ask for this because it helps other Dads discover our podcasts. (the world of podcasts, like many things is driven by ratings and reviews)

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“I want Dads to know…That if you apply personal responsibility and care to what you’re doing, you can change the world. And the changing of the world means fixing your shit! Fix your own shit, and don’t try and do anything else until you do that. Period.” - Kevin Sabourin

In this second episode of the Rethinking Dad podcast, we continue the stories that brought us to launching this community and podcast. Dovetailing off of Michael’s more epiphany-story, Kevin’s shares, what he refers to, as more of a “slow burn”. 

Join us as Kevin shares stories of how his marriage started with unconventional vows, the decisions to unschool their kids all the way to the ultimate takeaway that we all must be responsible for “fixing our shit”. This episode helps lay the foundation for the community we are building and the support we aim to give.

Thank you for hitting “follow” or subscribing on your favorite podcast platform and sharing with a Dad you know. And we truly hope you enjoy and find inspiration in these stories so that you too might become a Rethinking Dad.

If you like what you're hearing, thank you in advance for leaving us a 5-star rating and a written review. We ask for this because it helps other Dads discover our podcasts. (the world of podcasts, like many things is driven by ratings and reviews)

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Welcome to the first-ever episode of "ReThinking Dad." We're Kevin Sabourin and Michael Sharkey, two Dads doing things a bit differently with our kids. In this podcast, we're all about sharing our stories – the ups, the downs, and everything in between.

In ReThinking Dad, we're ditching the usual parenting rulebook and telling you about our wild adventures in unschooling and some pretty epic travels that took us far from home. Our goal is to keep things interesting and fun, giving you a peek into what being a Dad means in today's ever-changing world.

With every episode, you'll hear our own stories and get to hang out with other Dads who've taken their own unique paths in parenting. We believe that by sharing our stories, we can all figure out what it means to be a "ReThinking Dad."

In our first couple of episodes, we share stories that inspired us to start this podcast and create a whole community. We hope you enjoy hearing about our adventures.

Thanks for joining us on this awesome journey!

• Michael & Kevin

If you like what you're hearing, thank you in advance for leaving us a 5-star rating and a written review. We ask for this because it helps other Dads discover our podcasts. (the world of podcasts, like many things is driven by ratings and reviews)

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