It’s hard to perfect the art of the Neg. Subtle as hell, the expert user will put his subject into an imaginary competition to prove her high value to him. This technique is generally reserved for Queen Bees, as the more high status a subject is, the more powerfully destabilising a well aimed snub can be. This week we are lucky enough to have James smears AKA Stavros the lover give a master class. We’ll also follow Dari to Bob’s crib. Let’s find out how the other half live!

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