Audio recording Sermon manuscript: Let me tell you something strange: On the one hand, nobody likes being corrected. On the other hand, everybody likes correcting others. It’s like there’s a one way street. All correction is to issue forth from us unto others. We resent it when any correction might come from others upon us. Jesus once asked, “Why do you focus on the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not consider the beam that is in your own eye? How will you tell your brother, ‘Let me remove the speck from your eye,’ when, in fact, you have a beam in your own eye? Hypocrite! First remove the beam from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.” Try to imagine what that might look like. Whenever the person moves his head, this big beam or log is swinging around. Regardless of that log, all the correcting is a one way street. Wherever that beam happens to swing is where that critical eye will notice something wrong. Everybody else is subpar. You alone are right. It must get lonely as you sit atop that mountain of righteousness, all by yourself. So how might we fix this? Certainly something must be said for Jesus’s advice: “Judge not, lest you be judged.” Stop judging. Stop correcting others. Just for the sake of outward peace and harmony it is often good to hold your tongue. There is a common false belief that judging and censuring and condemning is the sign of a great intellect or a vigorous prophetic spirit. Thus, particularly in the church, it is easy to find people who are never satisfied with anything that is not their own. Martin Luther called these people “sour-faced saints.” Their faces always looked as though they had been sucking on lemons. Because they were always so sour about everybody else’s supposed misdeeds, they thought that they were very saintly. Unfortunately for them, judging is not named as one of the fruits of the Holy Spirit. The whole tone and tenor of that list of the fruit of the Spirit goes against these sour-faced saints. “The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control.” There is an openness in this list. We are to be open to others. If we meet others with intending to shoot them down, we always need to have our pistol at the ready. Be ready to shoot, lest the other person get their shot off first. Such a person is closed rather than open—always on the defensive, always ready to strike back. They do not want to be corrected, so they always have their attacks ready to put a stop to being corrected before it even starts. This way of protecting one’s self, of closing down, of shutting one’s self off from others, is a natural response. Here we see that what is “natural” is not what is godly. It is natural to shut down and protect yourself, but that isn’t godly. There are a lot of things that are “natural” but nevertheless ungodly. Lust is natural. Anger is natural. Greed is natural. Loving your friends and hating your enemies is natural. Yet Jesus says, “Love your enemies, and do good to those who persecute you.” Loving those who want to hurt you is impossible for our flesh, which is always looking out for numero uno. It is that same looking out for numero uno that shuts people off from others, guns drawn, finger on the trigger. The alternative is an openness that is manifested in patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. But with this openness, honesty, laying your heart out there, there is the possibility of getting hurt. Let me try to explain. Perhaps you can see this most easily with children, for they have not yet become so guarded and jaded. Suppose there’s a child who likes to play with a toy that his peers might think is for younger kids. The child doesn’t know there’s anything wrong with playing with that toy. But one of the other kids (and there are always plenty of these around) makes fun of that kid. And the other kids (and there are