181027 Funeral Sermon for Arlene Thiele Not all deaths are the same. The difference between someone who is old dying and someone young dying is so vast that they are almost two different things. When young people die there is immense sadness. It is easy for all of us to imagine the things that a young person might have done if only they lived longer. When someone who is old dies, we know that those kinds of experiences are generally behind them. They’ve had their children and their grandchildren. They’ve had their careers and vacations and memories. Unlike how it is with young people, nobody seems to be getting robbed of the potential life that they might have lived.And when we consider the situation of someone like Arlene, it is even more this way. She certainly lived to be old. At ninety-six she was the oldest member of our congregation. In addition to having a long life, full of experiences, we also know that these last few years were not the way that most of us would choose to live out our days. Dementia took away Arlene’s memories and many of her abilities. She lost her independence and became more child-like. In a way, she became like a different person. We can be thankful that dementia did not take away her pleasant demeanor and positive outlook on life like it can with some. I don’t think she was really unhappy these last years, but certainly thing were changed, and the daily tasks only became more and more difficult for her to do. Life was only becoming harder, and so it is good that things should no longer be difficult for her.Death, therefore, can be evaluated very differently depending on the circumstances. It can be a horrible tragedy, or something that is only to be expected, or even it can be somewhat of a relief.But what is almost always ignored, when death is looked at in this way, is God. All the focus is on this life and the relative quality or quantity of it, but what about the One who giveth and who taketh away? Behind every life there is a story with God, the Creator, on the one hand, and the person, the creature, on the other. They are the main characters. A good way to understand the Bible, and the history that is recorded in it, is that contained in this book are stories about the way that God dealt with different people. Just as God dealt with the people of the Bible, so also he deals with each and every one of us up until today.And the stories can be quite different. Some live in rebellion against God and will not listen to his Word. They thwart God’s efforts to save them through faith in his only beloved Son whom he sent to redeem the world. Others repent of their sins and believe on the Lord Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of their sins. Yet others believe for a while, but then fall away. And yet some of these are called back to faith. The Good Shepherd goes out looking for the sheep who was lost, and when he finds it he puts it on his shoulders and carries it back to the flock rejoicing. The twists and turns and failures and restorations and joys and crosses are all a part of this story. The length of a person’s life, also, then, is part of this story. But it isn’t the main thing.A person might have a short life on this earth, but then he or she is “away from the body and at home with the Lord.” Or a person might live a long life on this earth, but if he or she lives in rebellion against God and his Son, then their long life on earth will look incredibly short from the perspective of eternity. Jesus says, “What good does it do for a person to gain the whole world, but to lose his or her own soul?” This life and the quality of it is not the only or even the main concern. The will of God towards you in Jesus Christ is everything.Jesus speaks of this will of God towards us in the readin