I have a confession. When the kids were younger and it was my birthday, I couldn’t help myself. When I was married my wife was a stay at home mom. I had no expectations of presents and like the cliche you only learn once you become a parent, it truly meant the most to me to get a present from my kids that they created. I still feel that way.

However, I couldn’t help myself, and when we were out to dinner for my birthday, I would get the kids presents. A little something here and there. “Why not?” I would say.

Then it happened again the next year. And the next.

And thus the “Reverse Birthday” was born.

DIsclaimer: I want to make it clear that I am not talking about NOT being humble, or trying to “control” everything by being the one with the power/money at the time. As I said the presents little kids (and even big kids and big, fully functioning adults) create are the most precious and valuable. It’s just something I did to see joy in other people’s faces.

Sorry I had to make the disclaimer, but I want NO misconceptions here for the 2% of people that might skim this and click their tongues.

Moving on…

So, I want to continue that tradition with you. I can’t buy everyone something. And something I create has the most meaning. So what can I get you for my Reverse Birthday (yeah, it’s actually today)? I’m an Aquarius, if you hadn’t figured that out already.

Part of what gives validity to “the thought that counts” is getting something that they actually find joy with. So, the only way I know you found joy is if you’ve already gotten one. So, if you pick up a copy of one of my books, I will send you a signed copy of another (it can be the same book if that’s what you want).

Meaning, if you pick up a copy of The Sword and the Sunflower, I will send you a signed copy of Amira, or another copy of The Sword and the Sunflower to give to a friend. If you buy The Status Game II, I can send you a copy of Alchemy For Life: Formulas for Success. Book for a book. This offer is available for the following physical books: The Sword and the Sunflower, Amira, Alchemy for Life: Formulas for Success, The Status Game II, OneSelf: Have Faith, In Yourself.

How do I know you purchased the book in the first place? Because you upload an action shot to Amazon, and then email me.

If it sounds convoluted, it’s not. it’s just a way for people to get the signed copy and avoid any… issues.

Or, you could just click your tongue at how absurd this is.

NOTE THAT THIS OFFER HAS EXPIRED

Hey there — yes, it’s Wednesday, not Sunday. But I have something to share. A confession.

When my kids were young, I’d sometimes buy them little gifts on my birthday.
Why? Because it brought me joy. That became a tradition — a “reverse birthday.”

This isn’t about control or pride. The best gifts are handmade or heartfelt.
Giving gifts brought me happiness — plain and simple.

So let’s continue the tradition — with you.
I can’t buy everyone something, but I can give you something meaningful: a free signed book.

Buy one of my books, and I’ll send you a signed physical copy of another — at my expense.
No strings attached. Just joy.

Note: Please only include your own address. What you do with the gift is up to you.

That’s it! Wait for your reverse birthday present. Maybe you’ll pass it on.
Maybe this becomes your new tradition.

Or maybe… you’ll click your tongue and shake your head at how silly this all is.

Either way — thanks for being here.