This is my feedback from this whole season.

Thank you for my voice notes.

I hope men get a bit of clarity... we all have needs and wants... but there is a choice about how you go about things.

Women and en need each other... But only if it's for the betterment of living. I cannot do anything with a man you depletes me.

Things Women do, that Men do not like:

• Chronic Complaining, do something about it or shut up
• Negative Self-Talk and Self-Criticism, if you that bad why would I want to be with you?
• People-Pleasing, don’t be the fix it friend...
• Phone Time All Day?!? ewww
• Impulse Spending, Girl You Broke
• Poor Time Management; why you can’t get all your adulting things done?
• Gossiping, mind the biz that pays you
• Trying to Date Like A Man, girl no matter what a man with no intentions will leave you with responsibilities

Things Women Hate that Men do:

• Neglecting regular checkups, We do not want to be ya nurse in our 40’s take care of yourself
• Poor diet and unhealthy eating, sir I wanna be the only one with tits in this relationship
• Insufficient physical exercise, go to the gym
• Excessive Substance use, why do you have to drink/ smoke daily?
• Avoiding emotional expression, most men do not want to feel rejected or share feelings with the wrong person. We get it. But if im not a safe place for your feelings why are we together?
• Avoiding difficult conversations on an adult level, the only way to betterment is through it
• Not asking for help because of your ego
• Procrastination about things that will make you better 
• Personal hygiene, why we gotta tell you… you funky?
• Financial habits, do you need another pair of J’s if you haven’t seen ya dentist?
• Accountability, what did you do? What you did created a reaction you don’t like…

• Excessive screen time, you not a woman… go be busy.

Thanks for listening. We can all be better. Who you spend the most time with says more about you.

Chan & Pods

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