It's not always about men being the issue... I'll explain.

At the end of this season it’s gonna click for a lot of people, like it hasn’t before.

It’s season 24.

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Why do women do this?

I have 3 reasons I do it... some women just wanna push your buttons though.

At the end of this season it’s gonna click for a lot of people, like it hasn’t before.

It’s season 24.

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Some do, but most men only listen to the majority who say they need a HORSE... Be good with what you got sir. We do not need an explanation... thats between ya mama and daddy.

let me explain. There are other things that matter more.

At the end of this season it’s gonna click for a lot of people, like it hasn’t before.

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This is a heavy one.

It can be many factors with women, we go through so much internally.

It's not really all about men and what they do or don't do for that woman.

Press play

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For the same reasons most men don't want marriage.

They do not see the point in it, "let's keep the government out our relationship."

Most states, if a person consistently been at your place for 3 weeks, thats their residents... the government in your situationship.

Do they get mail at your address? That's their residence too.

Is your car on their insurance plan? That's their residence too.

I've heard all the reasons marriage ain't a want... but Women not wanting marriage is rarely talked about.

Press play !!!

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Now, I'm not gonna lie.

This sounds bad but it's really it's the reality in 2025.

A lot of our Moms wanted our Dads help more and they didn't know how to ask or explain it.

There are some women that are okay with dating, love to be in a relationship with you but when it comes to having your kids, it's a definite no, no.

It's not the no, that you think. Some women see that you are successful, they see that you are a gentleman and they see that you can support a family, but your personality doesn't say "Good Parenting Partnership". Some men already set a tone for women that tells her, if she has a child with you she will basically be doing 95% of what needs to get done physically for that child. A lot of women today, do not want to take on more than 70% of what it takes to take care of a child. Most women are looking for a fair parenting situation. So if you are successful, if you like to travel and you work all the time, in her mind.... Financially yes, you can probably take care of a child but how involved would you be in the day-to-day. No, you would not be an available partner how she wants a Dad around for her kids.

It takes a lot to take care of a child and if you're not available the way she would want a partner she does not want your kids.

Let me explain.

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We are not our grandmothers, we are not our mothers. Today's women would rather build, create, raise and explore this life single, than stressed and unhappy with a man refusing to see himself.

A man willing to correct himself and mature in order to enjoy the peaceful life of being with the right woman for him.

Every relationship is not worth holding on to, unfortunately a lot of todays marriages are included.

The foundation was never built on good values to sustain it.

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Ummmm.... We don't.

We just want you to use your brain, without us saying what to do verbatim.

The most attraction language you can have with a man is unspoken, learned needs being met.

You know what we like to see, eat, hear and feel...

Show us that you listened by taking the initiative to do the things we like or need.

Let me explain.

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Now, this one is a reality check for both Men and Women.

Being a SAHM is not for the weak, it involves a lot of work. Unless that man is wealthy or as a woman you are well off.

I'll explain myself, press play.

Just remember, what we see on TV isn't all its cracked up to be.

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Think about investing in yourself so you can move up the ladder in your career and life... You had goals for over a decade and completed all of them... Now you want a life you feel you deserve, options or benefits you see other people recieve, who put in the work too. Then boom... Society is yelling... You should get "use this" and make it work because blah, blah, blah... some people have no one just be happy this person wants to acknowledge you or talk to you.

There is no Chemistry, but he thinks you're cute...

Your self motivated, their not...

You love peace and they have a great time in chaos...

You want a healthy lifestyle and they think everyday is a YOLO moment...

A Finished Product in a Man, is a diamond in the rough for most women.

Imma tell you straight up, why it's either that SOLID MAN or single life for most of them.

Women are outside for the ROI and not the crumbs for hugs or attention.

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