Episode #762 Is your wife getting scared because you're not consistent? Are you bothered when she's testing you? Ask her a question, "Are you okay?" to break the pattern. Smile and hug her to protect her and laugh because you're not affected. In this episode, Doug talks about some ways on how to react well to your wife's shit tests like an Aikido Master and be able to persuade her that you are powerful enough to handle the relationship. Many of our listeners also enjoy listening to Grant Cardone, Tony Robbins, Man Talks, Garret White, Alex Hermosi, and more.  __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Revisit: 3 Ways To Crush Shit Tests Like An Aikido Master

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Episode #830 In this episode, Doug Holt and Brad Holt dive into the concept of "engaged indifference." Learn how staying emotionally grounded while remaining present can transform your relationship. Doug shares personal stories and practical strategies for becoming the unwavering lighthouse in your marriage, ensuring your wife feels emotionally safe, even during conflicts. Join us as we explore how to break free from defensive reactions and create a space where genuine communication and connection can flourish. Whether you're facing frequent disagreements or simply want to deepen your bond, this episode offers valuable insights to help you lead with confidence and compassion. Tune in to discover how you can practice engaged indifference to foster a resilient and loving marriage. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man. Date Night Questions PDF: https://www.thepowerfulman.com/datenight/  

What Is Engaged Indifference?

Episode #829 In this episode, Doug Holt and Brad Holt dive deep into the multifaceted world of men's growth, exploring the essential five territories: Self, Health, Wealth, Relationships, and Business. Discover how balancing these areas is crucial for a fulfilling life, both personally and professionally. Doug and Brad discuss real-life success stories, revealing how men who thought their primary goal was to save their marriage found that the journey led to a complete life overhaul. From rekindling passion in the bedroom to landing major business deals, the episode underscores the interconnectedness of our personal and professional lives. You'll learn actionable strategies to protect and nurture each of the five territories, ensuring that when one area flourishes, it elevates the others. Whether you're struggling with relationship woes, business burnout, or personal stagnation, this episode offers valuable insights to help you reclaim control and live powerfully. Highlights:  Understanding the Five Territories and their impact on your life Real-life stories of transformation in relationships and business Practical steps to apply these principles and see immediate results The importance of community and support in personal growth How to manage anxiety and excitement to fuel your success  Join us for a conversation beyond saving your marriage and setting the stage for holistic growth. Don’t miss out on the chance to take massive action towards becoming the powerful man you are meant to be. Tune in now and start your journey to a more balanced and empowered life. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

It's Not Just About Your Marriage

Episode #828 In this episode, Doug Holt dives deep into the female perspective on what truly ignites desire in women. Joined by relationship expert Tim Matthews, they explore the often-overlooked aspects of male attractiveness that go beyond physical appearance. Discover the secrets to rekindling passion, building deeper connections, and understanding the subtle cues that make a man irresistible. Listeners will gain valuable insights into:  The psychological triggers of female desire. How to communicate in ways that foster intimacy and trust. Practical steps men can take to become more attractive to their partners. Real-life stories and expert advice on improving your relationship.  Whether you're looking to reignite the spark in your marriage or simply understand what makes women tick, this episode is packed with actionable advice and heartfelt discussions. Tune in to learn how to transform your relationship and become the man your partner truly desires. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Woman's POV: Unlocking Desire-What Women Really Find Sexy in Men

Episode #827 In this episode of the TPM Show, hosts Doug Holt and Brad Holt dive deep into the concept of legacy. What does it truly mean to leave a legacy, and how can you ensure it's one of choice rather than circumstance? The Holts discuss the importance of living authentically and intentionally, demonstrating how you can provide for your family not just financially, but also through actions that speak louder than words. From the "rocking chair test" to envisioning your ultimate legacy, this episode is packed with actionable advice. Learn why it's crucial to plan your life and legacy proactively, challenging the belief systems handed down through generations. Whether it's through personal development, maintaining strong relationships, or setting an example for your children, Doug and Brad emphasize that legacy is built through everyday actions and choices. Tune in to discover how you can leave a legacy of love, compassion, and authenticity. This episode is not just about making money or achieving success—it's about creating a meaningful and lasting impact on those you care about most. Key Takeaways:  The true meaning of legacy and how to define it for yourself. Practical exercises like the "rocking chair test" to help you envision your desired legacy. The importance of authenticity and intentional living. How to leave a legacy that reflects your values and beliefs. Real-life examples and stories of individuals who have successfully redefined their legacies.  Join us as we explore how to leave a legacy that goes beyond wealth, ensuring your impact is both profound and lasting. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Redefining Legacy: Leaving a Lasting Impact Beyond Wealth

Episode #826 In this episode of The TPM Show, Doug Holt and his brother Brad delve into the complexities of honesty in relationships. Join them as they explore how secrets and lies can build invisible walls, causing distance and mistrust between partners. They discuss the importance of integrity, the emotional toll of hiding the truth, and how coming clean can lead to personal freedom and deeper connections. Learn how men can navigate the fear of being honest, the potential backlash from their partners, and the path to building stronger, more authentic relationships. Through heartfelt anecdotes and practical advice, Doug and Brad offer insights on how to move from a place of shame and guilt to one of courage and integrity. Whether you're dealing with hidden financial decisions, past infidelities, or just the little white lies that accumulate over time, this episode provides the tools you need to face the truth and foster a healthier, more transparent relationship. Highlights:  The impact of secrets on personal integrity and relationship dynamics Practical steps to approach difficult conversations with your partner Real-life examples of men who transformed their relationships through honesty The concept of the "stickman" and the "I Am" – identifying your true self versus your defensive self How to use the "Clean Slate Method" to take responsibility and rebuild trust  Tune in to discover why honesty truly is the best policy and how you can navigate the difficult terrain of lies and broken promises to build a stronger, more loving relationship. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Revisit: 3 Ways To Crush Shit Tests Like An Aikido Master

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