Episode #944

Too many couples get stuck in a cycle of waiting—waiting for their partner to change, waiting for things to get better, waiting for the right moment. But what if you made the first move?

In this episode, Doug and Erin Holt dive into the real dynamics of marriage, why so many women initiate divorce, and what men can do to step up before it’s too late. They break down the patterns that push couples apart, the hidden signals men often miss, and the power of taking ownership—without waiting for permission.

Whether your marriage feels disconnected or you just want to deepen your connection, this episode is packed with practical insights on leadership, trust, and building a stronger relationship.

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Episode #943

Ever found yourself reacting in the heat of the moment—only to regret it later? Whether it’s frustration with your wife, your kids, or even a stranger cutting you off in traffic, anger can quickly take control if you don’t have the right tools to manage it.

In this episode, Doug Holt and TPM Advisor Christopher tackle a crucial question from a listener: How do you calm yourself when anger arises or when past issues resurface in your relationship? They break down practical techniques to help you stay grounded, process emotions, and avoid falling into the same old patterns.

You'll discover how breathwork can reset your emotions before you react and why shifting your mindset can turn conflict into deeper connection. Doug and Chris also explore how to reframe past hurts so they don’t control your present, why unresolved issues keep resurfacing, and what you can do to finally break free. They introduce the "Clean Slate" method—a powerful way to wipe the past clean and move forward in your marriage without carrying old wounds.

If you’re tired of anger running the show, this episode is for you. Take control, build stronger relationships, and show up as the man you want to be.

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Episode #942

Ever feel like you and your wife are more like roommates than partners? You’re not alone. Over time, responsibilities pile up, communication fades, and connection slips away—but it doesn’t have to stay that way.

In this episode, Doug sits down with his wife, Erin Holt, to tackle one of the most common questions men ask: How do I reconnect with my wife? They break down the real reasons relationships drift apart and share practical steps to bring back intimacy, trust, and playfulness in your marriage.

They discuss the small, everyday moments that determine whether you grow closer or further apart. Ignoring bids for connection can quietly destroy your relationship, while simple shifts in attention and energy can rebuild it. Doug and Erin dive into why embracing your natural masculine leadership sparks deeper intimacy and how understanding the balance between masculine and feminine energy keeps attraction strong. They also explain why thriving as individuals leads to a stronger, more passionate marriage.

This isn’t just theory—it’s real, actionable advice that works. Whether you're trying to reignite passion or simply strengthen your bond, this conversation will give you the tools to lead in your marriage with confidence.

Listen now and start making the changes your relationship needs.

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Episode #941

Are you shutting down your emotions without even realizing it? Many men do—pushing down anger, regret, and fear in an attempt to stay "even-keeled." But here's the truth: when you numb the hard emotions, you also numb the joy, passion, and fulfillment you crave.

In this episode, Doug and Andy dive deep into emotional intelligence and what it really means to be strong. They unpack:

• Why suppressing emotions limits your happiness
• How vulnerability is a sign of strength, not weakness
• The real meaning behind anger—and how to use it constructively
• Why emotional attunement makes you a better partner, leader, and man

If you’ve ever been told you're "emotionally unavailable" or struggled to connect with your wife on a deeper level, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in now and take the first step toward unlocking your full emotional potential.

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Episode #940

Ever feel hesitant to ask your wife for what you truly want—whether it's more appreciation, intimacy, or support—because you're afraid of coming across as needy? You’re not alone. Many men struggle with this, and the way you ask can make all the difference.

In this episode, Doug and Christopher break down exactly how to communicate your needs with confidence so your wife actually wants to meet them. You’ll learn why hesitation makes your wife test you, how to avoid the “nice guy” trap, and what it really means to show up as a grounded, masculine leader in your relationship.

They dive into why your wife pushes back when you hesitate, how to make a strong request without sounding weak or demanding, and the secret energetic shift that makes a man irresistibly attractive. When you approach conversations from a place of confidence instead of expectation, your relationship changes for the better.

If you’re ready to stop second-guessing yourself and start leading with confidence, this episode is for you.

Listen now and take action!

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Episode #939

Are you just going through the motions, telling yourself that things aren’t that bad? Many men stay stuck in “comfortable” but unfulfilling relationships, careers, and routines—because the fear of change feels worse than the reality of staying put.

In this episode, Doug and Chris break down the hidden cost of settling for average—especially in your marriage. They talk about why so many men avoid the tough conversations, how fear of rejection keeps guys stuck, and the real reason your wife might not be showing up for you the way you want. Plus, they share actionable steps to reclaim your confidence, take ownership of your life, and step into the man you’re meant to be.

You’ll learn:

• Why "playing it safe" is often the fastest way to lose everything
• How to break free from the patterns keeping you stuck in your marriage
• The #1 thing men get wrong about their wife’s lack of intimacy
• How to stop feeling like “just a paycheck” and build real connection
• The power of taking action—even when you don’t have all the answers

If you’re tired of settling and ready to step up, this episode is for you.

Listen now and start making a change today.

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Episode #938

Feeling stuck? Lost motivation? You’re not alone. That’s why we’re bringing back one of our most powerful episodes to help you break free and regain your momentum.

In this Revisit Episode of The TPM Show, Doug and Tim share practical strategies to get back on track when life knocks you down. Whether it’s in your health, relationships, or business, they reveal how to shift from inaction to progress—without waiting for motivation to magically appear.

You'll rediscover:

• Why waiting for motivation is a losing game—and what to do instead
• The small, imperfect actions that create massive change
• How to reconnect with your "why" and sustain your drive
• The mindset shifts that turn setbacks into comebacks

If you've been feeling off your game, this episode is your wake-up call.

Listen now and take the first step toward reigniting your passion.

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Episode #937

Many successful men secretly struggle with imposter syndrome, feeling like they don’t truly deserve their success or fearing they’ll be “found out.” This internal battle can rob them of happiness, even when they’ve achieved everything they thought would make them feel fulfilled.

In this revisit episode, Doug and Tim dive deep into why imposter syndrome shows up, how it keeps men stuck, and what can be done to break free. They share insights on shifting mindset, building real confidence through simple daily habits, and why having the right group of men around can make all the difference.

If self-doubt has ever held you back, this conversation will help reframe your perspective and show you how to step into your full potential.

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Episode #936

Ever feel like you're stuck in limbo, not sure which way to go? What if I told you that staying on the fence is actually a decision—and usually not a good one?

In this episode, Coach Chris joins me to talk about why taking action is the key to getting unstuck in your relationships, business, and life. We break down the Five Territories—Self, Health, Wealth, Relationships, and Business—and how to figure out where you need to focus first. Plus, we dive into why indecision is one of the biggest killers of attraction in a marriage (yes, even when it’s just picking a place for dinner).

In this episode, we cover: Why “not making a choice” is actually a choice The power of decisiveness in your marriage and life How to evaluate and balance the Five Territories The simple habit that can keep you on track Why men who take action see the biggest results

If you’ve been waiting for the “right time” to step up, this is your wake-up call. Tune in now and start making choices that actually move you forward.

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Episode #935

This powerful episode struck a chord with so many of you, so we’re bringing it back for another listen. How long does it take for someone to truly believe you’ve changed? In this revisited episode, Doug unpacks the story of a man determined to rebuild his marriage after years of emotional distance. Despite his efforts, his wife remains cautious—why is trust so hard to regain, and how do you earn it back?

Doug revisits the critical lessons about consistency, vulnerability, and showing up as your authentic self. Discover why even small missteps can trigger old fears, and learn how calling out your own imperfections can pave the way to deeper connection and trust.

Whether you’re rebuilding a relationship or striving to be the best version of yourself, this timeless episode is packed with actionable advice to help you lead with confidence and authenticity.

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