Episode #990

In this honest, no-fluff episode, Tim, Gary, and Mark open up about something most men never talk about—sexual abuse. They unpack how silence and shame shaped their lives, relationships, and how they saw themselves as men. But this conversation isn’t about staying stuck in the past. It’s about what happens when you finally tell the truth.

You’ll hear how opening up became the turning point—not just for healing, but for building real connection, trust, and confidence again. If you’ve ever felt like there’s a part of your story you can’t share, or if you’re carrying something heavy and silent, this one might hit home.

This is for the guy who needs to know he’s not alone—and that there's a path forward, even if it doesn’t feel like it yet.

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Episode #989

Can you stay calm and confident—even when your wife is testing your limits?

We're bringing this one back for a reason. If you've ever found yourself defending, explaining, or reacting in frustration during conflict… this episode is for you. Because how you show up in those moments—especially when your buttons are pushed—is the difference between a marriage that grows and one that keeps falling into the same fight.

In this episode, Doug and Brad break down what it really means to practice "engaged indifference." This isn't about being cold or checked out. It's about being fully present, fully grounded—and totally unshaken by someone else's emotional storm. When you lead this way, you become the lighthouse your wife can count on, no matter how rough the waters get.

They also dig into why being reactive turns your wife into your mother (yep, it happens), how to lead with curiosity instead of control, and how to stop tying your self-worth to your wife’s mood. You’ll hear personal stories, practical tools, and the exact mindset shift that makes deep intimacy—and real leadership—possible again.

Revisit this one. Because showing up as the lighthouse isn’t just about avoiding drama. It’s how you earn trust, spark connection, and lead from a place of strength—even when it’s hard.

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Episode #988

What if the reason you're burned out, disconnected, or stuck isn't because you're doing too much—but because you're saying yes to all the wrong things?

Most high-achieving men are secretly overwhelmed. They’ve built successful businesses, provided for their families, and checked all the boxes… yet deep down, something feels off. In this episode, you’ll hear how one man’s struggle to say “no” led to decades of hidden pain, poor decisions, and relationships that never quite fit.

In this episode, you'll hear a raw and powerful conversation between Tim Matthews, Mark Smith, and David Mason as they explore what happens when you stop hiding behind productivity and finally start honoring what you really want. They unpack how unresolved childhood trauma shows up in your “yes,” how saying no can feel dangerous when you were never taught it was safe—and how learning to say “yes” without a “but” can radically shift your business, marriage, and life.

You’ll also hear how David went from working 90-hour weeks to taking 3-day weekends—without losing momentum. And the surprising shift that made his business more successful while he finally felt at peace, connected, and fully alive.

If you’re ready to stop chasing validation and start leading with purpose, this is your episode.

Listen now. Your “yes” might be waiting.

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Episode #987

What if the key to stronger connection isn’t about trying harder—but simply remembering who you are?

Fresh off The Rising, Tim Matthews sits down with Mark Smith and Chris Cameron—aka “The Love Power”—to unpack some of the biggest personal breakthroughs that came from shutting out the noise and tuning in to what really matters.

They dive into the messy, beautiful process of self-discovery, and what happens when you finally stop running from your own patterns. You’ll hear how something as simple as saying “I love you” can completely shift a relationship—even in the middle of a heated disagreement.

In this episode, they talk about how knowing yourself can expose hidden triggers, like emotional eating, and how those subtle shifts can create massive change. They reflect on why real connection often gets lost in the day-to-day grind—and how men can reclaim it by owning their truth and leading from love.

This is one of those conversations that reminds you: the work isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being honest. With yourself first. Then with the people who matter most.

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Episode #986

You’re trying to move forward. You’ve apologized. You’ve changed. But the past keeps showing up in your marriage like it just happened yesterday. Every time things start to feel good again, she brings up the affair, the betrayal, or whatever broke the trust—and it knocks the wind out of both of you.

In this episode, Doug walks through exactly why that keeps happening and what you can do about it. Not with quick fixes or guilt trips, but with real tools that help her feel safe again. You’ll learn how to create the kind of emotional safety that allows her to finally exhale—and how to stay grounded when the past gets brought up, again.

This isn’t about defending yourself. It’s about leading the relationship forward, even if you're the one who caused the pain. If you're serious about rebuilding connection, this conversation is where you start.

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Episode #985

What does it really mean to be present for your kids—not just physically, but emotionally and mentally? And how do you balance that presence with the pressure you put on yourself to be a better man, husband, and leader?

In this episode, one father opens up about the raw and honest journey of leveling up—not just as a dad, but as a man. You’ll hear how stepping into deeper accountability led to a powerful realization: the standards we hold ourselves to can also become silent contracts that impact our relationships.

We dive into what happens when you stop trying to fix others and start leading with understanding. The conversation explores how to break patterns of judgment, how to truly connect with your children (especially daughters), and why being the “lighthouse” for your family sometimes means taking time to recharge your own bulb.

You’ll also hear about the surprising shifts that come from doing men’s work—not just once, but consistently—and how doing this work together brings clarity, confidence, and a deeper connection to purpose.

No fluff. Just real stories from real men doing the work—together.

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Episode #984

Do you ever feel like it’s your job to make sure everyone else is happy—your wife, your kids, your team—and somehow, it never quite works? You’re not alone.

In this episode, we dive deep into a common (and exhausting) trap many high-achieving men fall into: trying to take responsibility for other people's emotions. It feels noble at first—like you're being a great husband, father, or leader. But at what cost?

You'll hear personal stories and hard-won lessons about how this pattern often stems from childhood conditioning, religious or cultural expectations, and the desire to create peace and safety. And more importantly, you'll learn what to do about it.

This one's a real conversation—unscripted, honest, and revealing. No fluff. Just the stuff that gets in your way and how to get past it.

Tired of carrying everyone’s happiness but losing your own?

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Episode #983

Ever find yourself holding back appreciation from your wife because you’re not feeling seen yourself?

Yeah, I’ve been there too.

In this episode, Andrew and I dive deep into how something as simple as daily gratitude can completely shift your energy—and change the way you show up in your marriage, business, and life. We talk about what happens when you stop looking for what’s missing and start appreciating what’s already there.

This isn’t some fluffy gratitude journal talk. We’re talking about real, practical ways to use gratitude—even when things feel hard. Like when you’re trying to co-parent with your ex. Or when you're waking up at 2 AM with stress. Or when you’re biting your tongue in a tough conversation and trying not to blow up.

You’ll also hear a personal story I’ve never shared before—the moment I snapped out of a downward spiral thanks to a random triathlon on TV and a guy running without legs. It changed everything for me.

In this episode, we unpack how to keep your gratitude practice real (not forced), how it helps you lead better conversations, and why most guys totally overlook the power of being grateful for yourself.

Because the truth is, you can’t lead your family or your business if you’re constantly running on fumes and resentment. Gratitude flips that.

Whether your marriage is struggling or you just want to reconnect with your purpose as a man—this is where you start.

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Episode #982

What happens when you do everything “right” in your marriage… and it still falls apart?

In this episode, Andrew opens up about the painful unraveling of his relationship and how it forced him to face the one person he’d been avoiding—himself. Like a lot of men, he came into the work hoping to fix his marriage. What he ended up doing was far more powerful: he found himself.

This isn’t just a story of divorce. It’s a story of identity, ownership, and the kind of growth most men never allow themselves to experience. Andrew talks openly about the moment he realized his marriage couldn’t be saved—and how that loss became the catalyst for becoming a better man, father, and leader.

In this episode, you’ll hear how suppressing emotions kept him stuck, how real transformation came when he stopped blaming and started owning his part, and how doing “the work” gave him clarity—not just in relationships, but in who he is as a man.

Andrew doesn’t just share his wins—he shares his breaking point, the uncomfortable truths, and the exact shifts that helped him go from reactive to grounded. You’ll also hear why women are so drawn to men who do this work, and how showing up with no agenda is the real game changer in love and leadership.

If you’ve ever felt lost in your role as a husband, father, or businessman—or like you’re succeeding everywhere except at home—this conversation will hit home.

Don’t just listen to this one. Let it challenge you.

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It’s not about fixing her. It’s about becoming the man who leads with strength—no matter what.

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Episode #981

Ever found yourself wondering, “Shouldn’t I be further along by now?” You’ve done the work. You’ve read the books. Maybe you’ve even joined a few programs. And yet... there’s still something missing.

In this episode, I sit down with Arthur Magruniti—one of our lead coaches and a guy who’s not just talked about growth, but actually lived it. We have a real, honest conversation about what it actually looks like to keep growing year after year—without burning out or chasing the next shiny thing.

We talk about how most men only think they know what they want—and how the real breakthroughs happen when you realize what you actually need. Whether you’re dealing with struggles in your marriage, stuck in your business, or just feeling disconnected from who you really are, there’s something in here for you.

You’ll also hear why so many guys who’ve already “done the work” keep coming back, and what separates the ones who just consume information from the ones who actually transform.

This isn’t about perfection or chasing some big life overhaul. It’s about getting honest with yourself, taking the next right step, and finding out what’s truly possible when you stop trying to figure it all out alone.

If you’re ready to stop circling the same mountain and finally move forward—this is where you start.

Struggling in your marriage? If the stress is piling up and the connection with your wife is fading, I’ve got something for you.

I want to buy you a copy of my book, A Man’s Guide to Saving Your Marriage Without Talking About It. No fluff. Just real, proven steps to bring back the love and respect.

You cover shipping—I’ll cover the book.

Ready to see where you’re really at? If you’re tired of guessing and want a clear snapshot of what’s working—and what’s not—take the free assessment we mentioned in the episode. It only takes a couple of minutes and gives you instant clarity on where you need to focus.

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