Episode #999

Ever feel like you’re just surviving—barely making it through the day, disconnected from your partner, and exhausted from trying to hold it all together? In this episode, Doug sits down with Jason, a husband, father, and business owner who shares the raw truth of how he went from emotional shutdown, chronic pain, and near-divorce to rebuilding connection, purpose, and real partnership.

They talk honestly about what most men won’t admit: the emotional weight we carry, the struggle to show up at home after long days, and how easy it is to slip into resentment. But Jason’s story isn’t just about hitting bottom—it’s about doing the work to rise from it. He walks through the small but powerful shifts he made that helped him reconnect with his wife, become the dad he wanted to be, and find strength in vulnerability.

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Is this all there is?”—this conversation is for you. No fluff, no hype. Just real talk and a roadmap out of the fog.

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Episode #998

What if that argument about the dishes isn’t really about the dishes?

Most guys fall into the same trap during conflict—we react. We defend ourselves, make excuses, try to explain things, or just shut down completely. I’ve been there, and I used to think being “right” would solve everything. It didn’t. It just made the fights last longer and left us both feeling more disconnected.

In this episode, I’m bringing back a short but powerful conversation that can shift everything. I walk you through how I stopped blowing up arguments in my marriage and started turning those heated moments into connection.

We dive into a simple technique I used when things were at their worst—counting to 10. Sounds basic, right? But that pause gave me just enough space to stop reacting and start listening. From there, I used what we call the Hidden Motives Technique to figure out what my wife was really trying to say underneath the complaints.

In this revisit, I’ll show you how to shift the dynamic, so you're not just avoiding a blowup—you’re actually building more trust and intimacy. When your wife feels seen and heard, everything changes—including how she responds to you.

This isn’t about walking on eggshells. It’s about learning to lead better during conflict. And it works.

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Episode #997

Most men wait until they hit a wall before they do anything about their health. But it doesn’t have to be that way. In this episode, I sit down with Jason Kidman — a tech guy turned health optimization coach — to talk about how he went from burnout and chronic pain to feeling better at 44 than he did at 29.

We cover practical stuff: peptides, hormone health, biohacking (yes, without the hype), and how the system most of us rely on — doctors, meds, insurance — often fails to get us feeling better.

If you’re a guy in your late 30s or 40s thinking, “This is just what aging feels like,” this one’s for you. Jason breaks down what’s actually possible when you stop accepting brain fog, low energy, and poor sleep as your new normal.

We also talk about what to do first if you’re just starting out — and how small shifts can help you lead from the front as a husband, father, and business owner.

No fluff. No quick fixes. Just real talk and actionable takeaways to get your health back on track.

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Episode #996

How often do you find yourself being the one everyone else looks up to—but secretly wondering who’s helping you rise?

When you’re the guy with all the answers, where do you go when you need to level up?

In this episode, Tim sits down with Magoo and The Gift—two members of The Powerful Man’s Inner Circle—to break down what actually happens behind the scenes of this invite-only group. These aren’t just guys chasing success. They’re already winning—and still choosing to be pushed, challenged, and held to a higher standard.

You’ll hear what it’s like to be surrounded by men who won’t let you shrink, even when it’s uncomfortable. They talk openly about the pressure, the honesty, the moments of doubt—and how that friction creates serious growth. One-year visions are getting crushed in under five months. Guys are having the best years of their lives, and it’s not by accident.

In this episode, you'll hear how they’re playing the game differently. And why, if you're ready for something more—this might be exactly the push you didn’t know you needed.

🔥 Ready to stop playing small and start leading at a higher level—in your business and your marriage?

If you're the kind of man who thrives with structure, challenge, and real results (like the guys inside the Inner Circle), then start by getting clarity on where things are breaking down.

👉 Watch the free training now and discover exactly what’s holding your relationship back—and how to fix it without long talks or therapy sessions.

It’s time to stop guessing. Step into the man your wife actually wants to follow.

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Episode #995

In this Revisit episode, Doug and Brad Holt unpack a tough but necessary topic: what really happens when men keep secrets in their relationships. Whether it's hiding money, covering up past mistakes, or just not being honest about getting help, these lies—big or small—start to build walls.

The conversation is real and direct. They share stories from the men they’ve coached and talk through what it actually looks like to come clean. The hard part isn’t just the confession—it’s facing the fear of what comes next. But if you’ve been carrying something around and it’s starting to feel heavy, this episode might help you see another way forward.

This one’s not about shaming anyone. It’s about getting honest, stepping into leadership, and choosing connection over control. If something in your gut says it’s time to stop hiding, this is the episode to listen to.

Ready to stop carrying the weight of secrets? Take the quick Relationship Scale assessment to see exactly where things stand—and what’s keeping you from real connection. It’s free, takes just a few minutes, and gives you a clear starting point. 👉 Start the assessment now

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Episode #994

Are you coasting through life, thinking things are “fine”—but wondering deep down if there’s more?

You’re not alone.

A lot of men come into our programs thinking they’ve already done the work. Marriage is solid. Business is moving. Life looks good on paper. But something still feels... off. That’s the power of choosing growth when everything seems okay—before it’s not.

In this episode, we take you behind the scenes of the latest Rising event—a next-level experience built for men who’ve already done the foundational work and are now asking, What’s next?

You’ll hear how breakthroughs happened not because of a crisis, but because the guys leaned into the discomfort of growth—even when things were already going well. From coaches stepping up with no ego, to micro-adjustments that unlocked massive shifts, this conversation reveals what’s really possible when you stop settling for “good enough.”

We talk about how real transformation comes from precision, presence, and the courage to go deeper—not just wider. And why waiting until things fall apart is the slowest path to where you really want to go.

If you’ve ever thought, “I’m doing fine, I don’t need that right now,” this episode might just change your mind.

If you’re coasting in your marriage thinking “it’s fine,” that’s exactly when you need to act.

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Episode #993

Ever feel like you’ve checked all the boxes—career, family, success—but something still doesn’t feel right?

You’re not alone. And more importantly, you're not broken.

In this episode, Tim Matthews is joined by Gregory “Dynamite” and Derek “The Redwood” for a down-to-earth conversation about what it really means to feel lost as a man. They get honest about the times in their lives when they realized they were completely off track—and what it took to admit it, face it, and find their way forward.

This isn't about having a breakdown. It's about having a breakthrough.

They share what it feels like to build a life that looks great on the outside, but doesn’t feel right on the inside. The pressure to have the answers. The temptation to sedate with work, alcohol, or just staying busy. The fear of admitting you’re not sure who you are anymore.

But they also dive into the shift that happens when you stop fighting that feeling—and start listening to it.

In this episode, you’ll hear how spending time in nature, reconnecting with purpose, and leaning on brotherhood helped each of them move from feeling trapped to truly alive again.

If you’ve ever wondered, “How did I get here?”—this conversation is for you.

Sometimes being lost isn’t a problem. It’s a wake-up call. And it might be exactly what you need to finally find yourself.

Feeling lost in your marriage too? Just like in life, the first step to fixing a relationship is admitting you're not where you want to be. This free training shows you exactly how to get clarity, connection, and that spark back.

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It's time to stop drifting and start leading—at home and in life.

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Episode #992

Are you doing everything “right” in your marriage—and still watching the connection fade?

In this special revisit episode, we’re bringing back one of our most downloaded conversations that hits hard for a reason. We break down the five subtle but damaging “nice guy” habits that well-intentioned men fall into—habits that quietly kill attraction and connection over time.

From being indecisive… To constantly checking in with her emotions… To overgiving while your own tank runs dry…

These behaviors might feel like love, but they’re often rooted in fear, insecurity, or hidden expectations.

In this episode, you’ll hear why trying to please your wife isn’t the same as leading her… and why true intimacy starts with getting honest about where you’ve been playing small or playing safe.

This one’s for the man who’s tired of walking on eggshells and is ready to show up with purpose, clarity, and strength—without losing his heart in the process.

If you’ve ever said, “I do everything for her, and it’s still not enough,” this revisit is exactly what you need to hear.

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Episode #991

What if selling your business doesn’t bring the freedom you expected—but instead leaves you feeling lost?

It happens more than you'd think.

Too many business owners stay in the game too long, clinging to stress, burnout, or an outdated identity because they’re unsure of what’s next. Others rush into an exit thinking it’ll solve everything, only to realize the money didn’t bring clarity—or peace.

In this episode, you'll hear from Gary and Derek—two men who’ve navigated the emotional dynamics of exiting their businesses. One built his company from the ground up and sold it after more than 30 years. The other has gone through four exits and knows what it's like to buy in with the clear intention of getting out.

They talk openly about the warning signs they ignored, the personal toll of hanging on too long, and the surprising relief that came from admitting, “I’m done.” You’ll also hear how The Powerful Man played a crucial role in helping them step into what’s next—with intention, confidence, and clarity.

In this episode, you’ll get a behind-the-scenes look at what it really takes to leave a business well. Not just with a solid deal—but with your marriage, your health, and your purpose intact.

If you’ve been quietly wondering, “Is it time to let go?”... this conversation is your answer.

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Episode #990

In this honest, no-fluff episode, Tim, Gary, and Mark open up about something most men never talk about—sexual abuse. They unpack how silence and shame shaped their lives, relationships, and how they saw themselves as men. But this conversation isn’t about staying stuck in the past. It’s about what happens when you finally tell the truth.

You’ll hear how opening up became the turning point—not just for healing, but for building real connection, trust, and confidence again. If you’ve ever felt like there’s a part of your story you can’t share, or if you’re carrying something heavy and silent, this one might hit home.

This is for the guy who needs to know he’s not alone—and that there's a path forward, even if it doesn’t feel like it yet.

Ready to stop carrying it alone? If this episode stirred something in you—if you're tired of hiding, tired of feeling stuck—there’s a next step. Check out this free training that breaks down why so many men feel disconnected in their relationships and how to start rebuilding that trust and connection—starting with yourself. You’re not broken. You just haven’t had the right tools—until now.

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