Episode #971

What if the very thing driving your success is keeping you from feeling fulfilled?

A lot of high-performing men are caught in the loop of "once I get this... then I’ll finally be happy." Sound familiar? Maybe it's sex, money, business goals, or even just recognition from your wife. But here's the thing: that finish line keeps moving.

In this episode, Tim and Arthur unpack a hard truth—chasing happiness through external validation never ends well. They share real stories from men inside the movement (including one powerful breakthrough around intimacy and fulfillment) and dig into why so many of us resist feeling content, even when we say that’s all we want.

You'll hear how being grateful doesn't mean giving up your edge, why internal validation is a more powerful driver than any goal, and how to make the shift from "pushed by pain" to "pulled by pleasure."

If you're tired of hustling without feeling like you’ve arrived anywhere, this one's for you.

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You’ll walk away knowing exactly where things went off track—and how to bring it all back.

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Episode #970

Ever looked around at your life—good income, solid marriage, maybe even some investment wins—and still felt totally disconnected?

You're not alone.

A lot of high-performing men find themselves here. On paper, life checks all the boxes... but something feels off. That quiet frustration grows, and before long, you’re stuck in your head, spinning your wheels, and silently wondering, “Is this it?”

In this episode, Arthur Magoulianiti shares his raw and real journey from engineer to successful property investor to personal growth junkie—only to find himself lost and lacking purpose. He opens up about the internal struggle he faced, the toll it took on his marriage, and the powerful transformation that finally pulled him out of the fog.

You’ll hear:

• What “being lost” really feels like (and why logic alone won’t fix it)

• Why consuming more books, podcasts, and motivation might be making it worse

• The surprising moment Arthur realized how much he had been judging himself

• How men unknowingly carry emotional weight that drains them

• What actually works when you're ready to reconnect with purpose, power, and passion

In this episode, you’ll learn how the feeling of being "stuck" isn’t a personal flaw—it’s a sign that you’ve outgrown where you are. Arthur’s story and lessons provide a roadmap for any man ready to shift from confusion to clarity, from burnout to energized purpose.

Ready to Turn Things Around? Click the link below and grab your free copy of A Man’s Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It.

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Ready to stop guessing and start fixing your relationship?  Hit play on the free training here: thepowerfulman.com/scales

You’ll walk away knowing exactly where things went off track—and how to bring it all back.

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Episode #969

Why do high-achieving men so often feel stuck, numb, or just... off?

They've got the job, the house, the family—and yet inside, it’s like something’s broken.

That’s exactly what we unpack in this episode.

In this episode, Tim Matthews and Arthur Magulianiti pull back the curtain on the Alpha Reset—a powerful in-person experience that’s helped thousands of men stop spinning in their heads and start leading from a place of strength and authenticity.

You’ll hear what really happens behind closed doors during the Reset, and why men say it’s the first time they’ve truly felt alive in years.

We talk masks, emotional suppression, suicidal thoughts, the burden men silently carry, and what it means to stop proving and start leading—from the heart, not just the head.

From emotional breakthroughs to the quiet confidence that returns when a man drops the BS and owns who he is—this is a raw, unfiltered look at the journey so many guys are craving but rarely talk about.

Want That Look From Your Wife Again? Watch this free training to find out exactly what’s missing—and how to fix it.

No fluff. Just a clear path to bring back the love, respect, and intimacy.

👉 Go to thepowerfulman.com/scales and hit play.

Start leading again

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Episode #968

Ever have a song take you back to a moment in your life—instantly?

That’s not just nostalgia. It’s your nervous system responding to sound.

In this episode, I sit down with Levi Goins, the man we call the “ranch wizard” at TPM—but today, we’re tapping into one of his true gifts: the healing power of personalized music.

Levi’s been quietly changing lives behind the scenes using custom music therapy tracks. We’re talking about music that’s actually designed to anchor you into the man you want to be—whether that’s the calm leader walking through your front door or the powerful father fully present with his kids.

We get into how sound affects your emotional state, how to create music that becomes a personal trigger for peace, presence, or energy—and why even guys with zero musical talent (like me) can do this.

This isn’t about learning an instrument. It’s about creating something that sticks with you, wherever you go, and gets you back to your best.

You don’t need a playlist. You need a personal soundtrack.

Ready to Turn Things Around? Click the link below and grab your free copy of A Man’s Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It.

I’m buying the book for you—just cover the shipping. No fluff, no drawn-out therapy talk. Just a proven step-by-step plan to bring the love, respect, and connection back into your marriage.

Ready to stop guessing and start fixing your relationship?  Hit play on the free training here: thepowerfulman.com/scales

You’ll walk away knowing exactly where things went off track—and how to bring it all back.

🎧 Want to connect with Levi? 📧 Email him directly at: [email protected]

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Episode #967

Ever feel like your body just doesn’t bounce back like it used to?

You’re not alone—and it’s not just about getting older. In this episode, I’m joined once again by Dr. Phil Batterson, PhD in exercise physiology, to talk about something most guys overlook: recovery.

We dive into why your body might feel stiff, tired, or inflamed… even when you’re “doing all the right things.” The truth? Most men are overtraining and under-recovering. And that’s exactly why their results suck.

We break down how to build a fitness routine that actually fits your life, how stress is crushing your gains, and why things like sleep, breathwork, and protein matter way more than your fancy supplements or ice baths.

In this episode, you'll learn what an effective weekly plan looks like for the average high-performing man, why three days a week might be all you need, and how to structure recovery to actually feel better, not worse.

This one’s for the guy who’s grinding in business, trying to be there for his family—and still wants to feel like an athlete without burning out.

You don’t need to do more. You just need to do it smarter.

👉 Ready to Turn Things Around? Click the link below and grab your free copy of A Man’s Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It.

I’m buying the book for you—just cover the shipping. No fluff, no drawn-out therapy talk. Just a proven step-by-step plan to bring the love, respect, and connection back into your marriage.

Want That Look From Your Wife Again? Watch this free training to find out exactly what’s missing—and how to fix it.

No fluff. Just a clear path to bring back the love, respect, and intimacy.

👉 Go to thepowerfulman.com/scales and hit play.

Start leading again.

Want to connect with Dr. Phil Batterson? 📧 Email: [email protected] 📱 Instagram: @drphilbatterson 🎙️ Podcast: Critical Oxygen – for those of you who like a deep dive into performance and physiology.

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Episode #966

What if the biggest threat to your health isn’t your diet or your workout routine—but the shape of your cardiovascular system?

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Phil Batterson, a VO₂ Max and cardio health expert, who also happens to be the guy that recently tortured me with a fitness test. And by tortured, I mean he showed me where I was really at.

We dig into what VO₂ Max actually means in plain English—and why it's one of the most powerful predictors of how long you'll live. Seriously.

This isn’t about becoming an elite athlete. It's about being able to chase your kids around the yard, keep up with your wife in bed, and not get winded during pickup basketball.

Dr. Phil shares why most guys are training wrong for their goals, how you can get way better results in way less time, and why individualized testing beats generic workout plans every single time.

In this episode, you'll hear how I got tested, what surprised me most, and what every man should be doing right now to take back control of their health.

You don’t need to be perfect. You just need to know where you are—and start.

👉 Ready to Turn Things Around? Click the link below and grab your free copy of A Man’s Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It.

I’m buying the book for you—just cover the shipping. No fluff, no drawn-out therapy talk. Just a proven step-by-step plan to bring the love, respect, and connection back into your marriage.

If you're tired of wondering where the spark went...  This is your first step to getting it back. Watch the free video here: thepowerfulman.com/scales

You owe it to yourself to at least see what’s possible.

Want to reach out to Dr. Phil directly? 📧 Email him at [email protected] 📱 Or connect with him on Instagram: @drphilbatterson

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Episode #965

Feel like you’re just going through the motions—with no real direction?

If you’re waking up each day wondering, “Is this it?”, you’re not alone. A lot of guys struggle with setting a clear vision for their lives and marriages. And when you don’t have one, you end up drifting... reacting instead of leading.

In this episode, Chris and I talk about why so many men avoid setting a personal and relational vision—and how to actually get started (even if you feel stuck or overwhelmed).

We break it down into a practical process that helps you define what you do want by first identifying what you don’t. From sex to shared goals, from where you live to how you connect—it’s all on the table.

We also share real stories from the Alpha Reset and how just six weeks after setting a vision, one man’s entire life shifted—including his marriage and where he lived.

This isn’t some fluffy “manifest your dream life” stuff—it’s a grounded, actionable approach to leading with clarity and creating the life and relationship you actually want.

You don’t have to figure it out alone. We made this free training for guys who want real change. Start here: thepowerfulman.com/scales

Because once you see the truth, you can't unsee it—and that’s where things shift.

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Episode #964

When was the last time you actually had fun with your wife?

Not a “get dinner and talk about the kids” kind of night. Not a “watch TV and pass out on the couch” evening. Actual, flirtatious, playful, can’t-wait-to-get-you-alone kind of fun.

In this episode, Chris and I talk about something we don’t hear enough—fun. Specifically, how a lot of men have traded playfulness for predictability... and how it’s killing the spark in their marriage.

We unpack what it really means to become the Chief Fun Officer (CFO) in your relationship—not just with your kids, but with your wife and especially in the bedroom.

You’ll will get some creative (and hilarious) ideas for dates, flirting, and reigniting bedroom passion that feels more like play than performance.

This isn’t about being silly. It’s about being present and playful—the way you were when your relationship first started. Because when you’re having fun, she gets to feel desired, seen, and safe… and everything changes.

It’s not about working harder—it’s about knowing what to work on.  Check out the free video that breaks it all down: thepowerfulman.com/scales

Clarity changes everything—and it starts with this.

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Episode #963

What if the fear of rocking the boat is exactly what's sinking your relationship?

Too many men are quietly stuck—avoiding tough conversations, tiptoeing around decisions, and hoping things somehow just…get better. But that hesitation? It’s costing you your peace, your leadership, and the connection you crave with your wife.

In this episode, Chris Hansen and I get real about what’s actually holding men back. We dig into how fear shows up in marriage, how indecision slowly erodes intimacy, and why taking back leadership doesn’t mean being a jerk—it means showing up.

You’ll hear stories from real coaching conversations where men were scared to set boundaries, afraid to commit to change, or just stuck in that familiar “messy middle.” We break down the identity traps, the ego plays, and the excuses that keep men stuck—and what to do instead.

Whether you're feeling stuck in your marriage, your career, or your own head—this one's for you. It's time to stop sitting on the fence and start stepping into the man you know you're capable of being.

She used to look at you like you were her world. Want that again? It starts here → thepowerfulman.com/scales

You can’t fake connection—but you can rebuild it, stronger than before.

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Episode #962

When’s the last time your wife gave you that look—the one that says, “I want you”?

If it’s been a minute, you’re not alone. A lot of married guys find themselves in that same spot… and yeah, it probably means your Sexual Market Value (SMV) isn’t where it used to be.

In this episode, Coach Chris and I unpack what SMV actually means for men in long-term relationships. And no, it’s not just about being in shape or dressing sharp. It’s about the way you carry yourself, how much self-respect you have, and whether you’re still showing up like the man she was once drawn to.

We also get into the difference between real confidence and just going through the motions. A lot of men don’t even realize how far they’ve drifted until they either catch a glimpse in the mirror—or hear some hard truth from another man. If you’ve been thinking, “I’m doing everything I should… so why does she seem checked out?”—this conversation might hit close to home.

You’ll hear how to start rebuilding that quiet, steady confidence that naturally draws people in—especially your wife. We’re not talking gimmicks or trying to be someone you’re not. Just simple, real-world actions that help you feel solid in your own skin again. And it all starts with self-respect—not chasing approval.

So if you’ve been feeling kind of invisible at home, and you’re ready to start leading with presence and purpose again—yeah, this one’s for you.

Click play. Watch the free training.  See if it hits home. No pressure—just clarity: thepowerfulman.com/scales

Sometimes all it takes is one perspective shift to change everything.

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