Episode #952

What happens when men truly support each other—without ego, without judgment, and with real accountability? In this revisit episode, Doug Holt sits down with Chris Hartig and Matt, two men who’ve walked the path of transformation through The Powerful Man movement.

They share their raw experiences of growth, blind spots, and the power of having a brotherhood that pushes you to be better. Whether it’s business, marriage, or personal leadership, this conversation will challenge you to ask: Who’s in your corner?

Take a moment to reflect—are you leading, or just getting by?

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Episode #951

When was the last time you got truly curious about your wife? Not just about what she’s doing, but who she’s becoming?

In this episode, Doug Holt and TPM advisor Chris tackle a common challenge: emotional distance in marriage. Many men unknowingly stop seeing their wives as evolving individuals, leading to stagnation in communication and intimacy.

We answer real questions from TPM listeners, including:

• How to give your wife space without triggering her fear of abandonment
• Simple ways to break through emotional walls and spark meaningful conversations
• The importance of reinforcing emotional safety (hint: you need to say it more than once)
• Easy, actionable strategies to keep curiosity alive in your marriage

If your relationship feels a little off, this episode is for you. Tune in and start reconnecting today.

👉 Listen now and take action.

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Episode #950

We’re revisiting one of the most important topics for married businessmen—how to lead in your marriage without slipping into controlling behavior.

Many men struggle with finding the balance between taking charge and being overbearing. In this episode, Doug Holt breaks down:

• The key difference between leadership and control
• How to be the “lighthouse” in your marriage and inspire your wife to follow your lead
• Why controlling behavior often comes from fear—and how to shift out of it
• Practical ways to take charge without pushing your wife away

If you want to step up as a leader in your marriage without micromanaging or dictating, this is an episode worth revisiting. Tune in now!

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Episode #949

We're bringing back this powerful episode because it’s one of the most important conversations we’ve had about marriage.

Ever felt like you and your wife are growing apart? Maybe she’s pulling away, and you’re wondering if you even care anymore. You might even be asking yourself, Did I marry the wrong woman?

In this revisit, we break down a common pattern that leads men to disconnect emotionally—and how to shift it. We’ll explore:

• Why uncertainty in your marriage creates distance and what to do about it
• How your energy impacts her response (and why she might be pulling away)
• The 30-day challenge that can transform your marriage
• The key mindset shift that separates men who lead from those who drift

This isn’t about waiting for her to change. It’s about you stepping up, consistently. If your marriage feels stuck, this episode is your wake-up call.

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Episode #948

We're revisiting one of the most powerful mindset shifts that can completely change your marriage, your relationships, and even your business.

Ever find yourself in a pointless argument with your wife, wondering how a simple comment turned into a full-blown standoff? What if the key to avoiding these conflicts—and building deeper connection—was easier than you thought?

In this throwback episode, I break down a simple but game-changing perspective shift that helped one of my clients go from constant tension to a thriving marriage and stronger family bonds. And the best part? It also transformed his success in business.

Here’s what you’ll get from this episode: - A practical mindset shift that eliminates unnecessary conflict - How assuming positive intent can instantly improve your marriage - Why this small change creates massive impact in all areas of life

If you missed this episode the first time, or just need a reminder, this is your chance to revisit a key insight that can take your relationships to the next level.

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Episode #947

If you’ve ever felt stuck in your relationship—repeating the same arguments, feeling disconnected, or struggling to understand why you react the way you do—this episode is for you.

We’re revisiting a powerful conversation with men’s coach Casey DeCharneux, diving deep into the impact of early attachment on your adult relationships. Your patterns didn’t just appear overnight; they were shaped from a young age. The good news? Once you understand them, you can start rewriting the script.

Doug and Casey break down why attachment issues show up in marriage, how unconscious patterns drive your reactions, and what to do when rejection triggers you. They also explore why many men turn to sedation—whether it’s work, alcohol, or distraction—and how to break free from cycles that aren’t serving you.

If you’re ready to stop repeating the past and start creating a relationship built on real connection and trust, this is an episode worth hearing again.

Listen now and take the next step toward deeper connection.

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Episode #946

How do you raise confident, self-assured kids in a world that constantly challenges their self-worth? As parents, we all want to set our children up for success—but are we doing enough to instill resilience, self-love, and a strong sense of identity?

In this episode, Doug and Erin Holt share real, actionable strategies they use to parent with intention. They discuss simple but powerful habits that help children develop emotional intelligence, confidence, and inner strength. From using positive language and mirror affirmations to modeling self-care and teaching accountability, they break down ways to create a home environment where kids feel safe, loved, and empowered.

They also dive into the importance of how you frame conversations with your children, why leading by example is the most effective teaching tool, and how small daily interactions shape their long-term mindset. Whether you’re a dad looking for ways to connect with your kids or a couple wanting to parent with more purpose, this episode gives you the tools to make a lasting impact.

Listen now and start building the foundation for your child’s lifelong confidence.

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Episode #945

What do you do when you’re committed to personal growth, but your partner isn’t? How can you encourage them without making them feel judged or pressured?

In this episode, Doug and Chris break down a common struggle for men—wanting their wife to invest in herself but not knowing how to support her in a way that actually works. They reveal why pushing too hard can backfire, why leading by example is the most powerful strategy, and how to create a space where growth happens naturally.

They discuss the difference between sharing your journey with excitement versus telling your wife what she “should” do. Doug opens up about his own experiences, the lessons he’s learned, and how he’s seen transformation happen in relationships when men focus on becoming the best version of themselves first.

If you’ve ever felt frustrated watching your partner stay stuck while you evolve, this conversation will give you the clarity and tools to lead in a way that inspires—not pressures.

Listen now and start leading by example.

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Episode #944

Too many couples get stuck in a cycle of waiting—waiting for their partner to change, waiting for things to get better, waiting for the right moment. But what if you made the first move?

In this episode, Doug and Erin Holt dive into the real dynamics of marriage, why so many women initiate divorce, and what men can do to step up before it’s too late. They break down the patterns that push couples apart, the hidden signals men often miss, and the power of taking ownership—without waiting for permission.

Whether your marriage feels disconnected or you just want to deepen your connection, this episode is packed with practical insights on leadership, trust, and building a stronger relationship.

🎧 Tune in and start leading today.

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Episode #943

Ever found yourself reacting in the heat of the moment—only to regret it later? Whether it’s frustration with your wife, your kids, or even a stranger cutting you off in traffic, anger can quickly take control if you don’t have the right tools to manage it.

In this episode, Doug Holt and TPM Advisor Christopher tackle a crucial question from a listener: How do you calm yourself when anger arises or when past issues resurface in your relationship? They break down practical techniques to help you stay grounded, process emotions, and avoid falling into the same old patterns.

You'll discover how breathwork can reset your emotions before you react and why shifting your mindset can turn conflict into deeper connection. Doug and Chris also explore how to reframe past hurts so they don’t control your present, why unresolved issues keep resurfacing, and what you can do to finally break free. They introduce the "Clean Slate" method—a powerful way to wipe the past clean and move forward in your marriage without carrying old wounds.

If you’re tired of anger running the show, this episode is for you. Take control, build stronger relationships, and show up as the man you want to be.

🎧 Listen now and take the first step toward mastering your emotions.

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