August 28, 2023

REVISITED: Season 3 Rambles (Complete)

2 hours 28 minutes

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00:48 - Season 3 Rambles, Part 1: Recorded Jan 2021

25:31 - Season 3 Rambles, Part 2: Recorded April 2021

54:45 - Season 3 Michael's 'How Did I End Up' here: Recorded May 2021

01:29:22 - Season 3 Indy's 'How Did I End Up' here: Recorded June 2021

01:57:00 - Season 3 Rambles, Part 3: Recorded May 2021.

Part 1 -

Indy and Michael kick off Season 3! It's been a while and we are so excited to be back. Both Indy and Michael had their interest in kink wax and wane over the past months. Indy was dealing with life and had her resources devoted elsewhere. Michael describes his constant presence on Instagram and a weird headspace he's in where he just wants to press the stop button. He also had a very nice vanilla encounter which makes him question how kink got so important and powerful. Indy talks about how Season 3 will unpack the deeper psychological side that drives our interest in BDSM. Playing the role of the dominant has arisen for Indy at a time when she has increasingly become disillusioned with relationships - what is really going on here? Michael is obsessed with youth and beauty whereas Indy loves men and women of vintage. Indy has set herself a challenge: to ask out a hot man. Indy describes a dynamic with a sub where she is exploring cuckolding. Indy took out her phone and started to show her sub the dick pics she'd been sent of other men and tell him how much better they were. Will Indy get a bull? She is exploring consentual non-monogamy and some new desires. Season 3 will look at different dynamics of shame and how this relates to BDSM.

Part 2 - Join Michael and Indy as they ramble! Today we get straight into it. Michael describes a session with a sub who likes to be degraded for looking scruffy and wearing torn clothes. The session went into some unexpected directions, including pup play. Michael says he struggles with displays of affection and admiration as a Dom, which Indy can relate to. Indy has a confession to make. Whilst she loved the break from BDSM, now she's right back into it! Being almost 40, and at her sexual peak, she is back on the dating apps. However, it comes at an emotional price. The defectiveness schema can play out as can our deeper insecurities.

Indy's Episode - Join us this week as Indy and Michael laugh...and look at how Indy ended up here! Indy talks about being in the BDSM scene but feeling so defeated by dating apps, dating, vanilla and even kink. Indy describes her sexual revolution and disentangling of "the triangle" - sex, love and intimacy. This led for the door to open on her Domme side. However Indy now feels completely disillusioned by who she has become in the dating app scene.

Michael's Episode - Join us this week as Indy and Michael look at how Michael ended up in the situation he finds himself today. Michael relates somewhat to Indy when she speaks about being in the BDSM scene as a result of feeling so defeated by dating apps. He also speaks about his time as a Buddhist and how the fall of this triggered his Instagram pathway leading him to becomen what he is today on the social app world.

Part 3 - Join Indy and Michael in this season finale. We ramble about the position we now find ourselves in relation to BDSM. Given the insights surrounding shame, where does this lead Michael and Indy respectively?

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