In this episode, Hyram and Ian revisit the death of Ian's cousin and how a recent family visit brought back these feelings of sadness and grief. They also discuss their current problems of feeling stuck or being set back in life and how life can just be shitty. However, they also find ways to deal with these strong emotions. Is the key gratitude and optimism? Or perhaps moving forward despite feeling pain and frustration?  NEVER BE DISCOURAGED. NEVER GIVE UP!