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Meredith hosts Obsessed by Everything Bravo and recaps The Real Housewives of New York Season 5, Episode 4 “Dis-Invite,” as part of a chronological rewatch with a modern lens. Ramona lunches with Aviva and Carole, complaining that Heather talks too much and noting Heather’s assistant handled an email response. Luann and Sonja discuss Ramona’s controlling tendencies and Sonja’s role balancing friendships. Carole attends the Occupy Wall Street protest and shares her ABC News background and leaving the newsroom after her husband’s death. Ramona meets Heather for drinks hoping for a London invite, but the conversation goes poorly; Heather later invites Luann and says she won’t invite Ramona. Aviva declines London due to travel anxiety. At Sonja’s Social Life Magazine cover party, Ramona argues with Sonja about going to London and storms out, while Heather maintains not inviting Ramona is sincere.

00:00 Welcome and Episode Setup

00:58 Ramona Lunch and London Drama

08:06 Luann and Sonja Dinner Talk

11:01 Why Sonja Is the Linchpin

17:36 Carole at Occupy Wall Street

20:42 Ramona and Heather Drinks Clash

27:59 Luann Gets the London Invite

31:31 Aviva Backs Out of London

36:45 Sonja Party Blowup

48:13 Aftermath and Wrap Up

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