After nearly 30 years of marriage, Clarence and Yalonda have learned that some of the best marriage advice doesn't come from a book—it comes from experience, mistakes, arguments, and figuring things out along the way.

In this follow-up to Ep. 42, they continue to discuss the best marital advice they received and tackle everything from waiting to have children and keeping the pursuit alive, to sex, respect, understanding, indecisiveness, and knowing when it's better to hold your tongue. They get real and definitely disagree about what husbands and wives really need from each other. Plus, they ask the questions every couple should be talking about: Do you still need to pursue your spouse after you've "caught" them? Is respect more important than being understood?

And are there some things in marriage that are better left unsaid?

Buckle up for another episode of "The Carcass!" This week, Clarence and Yolanda are back in the car to recap their epic 12-day 30th-anniversary adventure through Italy and Egypt.

From the ruins of Ephesus to a dinner cruise on the Nile, the couple shares the "Threebies Funniest Things That Happened on their trip.

Beyond the travel stories, the couple dives into the "Album of the Episode," The Rebirth of Kirk Franklin, and its profound impact on their early marriage and faith. Finally, they get real about the best marriage advice they’ve ever received—covering everything from maintaining fidelity and respecting your spouse in public to why "just showing up" isn't always enough to keep the spark alive.

Boyz II Men takes Clarence and Yalonda straight back to the summer of 1992, bringing up college memories, music, and stories from when they were both “outside.” But the conversation takes a turn when they tackle the debate over dress codes at HBCUs. Are bonnets, durags, pajamas and loungewear simply personal choices—or is there value in having standards for how we show up in academic and professional spaces? Is this respectability politics, cultural tradition, or just common sense?

Clarence and Yalonda debate where the line should be drawn—and whether having standards still matters.

Ever stop doing something for a while and then completely forget how humans do it? This week we talk about the weird gap between "I've done this a thousand times" and "wait, how do pedals work," using driving as our case study — extremely on-brand, since this is the second episode in a row we're recording from a moving car.

Then we swerve (pun intended) into a full-blown Average White Band appreciation session. No notes, mostly vibes, occasional turn signals.

What makes our favorite influencer or public speaker an expert? Does it matter?

We're breaking down the 6 Phases of Marriage — and trust us, you'll want to know which one you're in! We also get into a fun debate about birthday celebration styles, because, like most things, we feel differently about them. And of course, we drop our Song of the Week to keep your love life soundtrack going strong. Tune in, enjoy the ride, and as always, let's keep love in rhythm!We make a couple of references to videos, you might want to check out:

• IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/iamdahliabinda/⁠
• Reel: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTu-lBzjHBh/?igsh=MWttZ2xpZm5xc3prdg==

When was the moment that you realized you were an adult?

Who is the best person for a guy to hook up with while he's separated from his wife? Is there a best person?

Why does she keep trying on outfits if I already told her she looks good in the first one?

Clarence and Yalonda break down the difference between price and value—from designer heels to dream cars to wedding bells. Find out why they skipped the big wedding bill at first and saved the splurge for their 15th anniversary. Sometimes the best investments aren’t about money at all.

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