You are loved, Understanding God’s love for you will change your heart, it is like a glass filled with dirty water, the more you pour into that glass clean water, the more the dirty water will flow out of the glass, the clearer, and clearer the water becomes. when the love of God comes into your heart , it flashes out the unwanted like bitterness, envy, impatience, anger, pride and whatever you are struggling to get rid of. God's love will flush it out.