It is easy for a person to confuse their various roles. A wife is a daughter, possibly a sibling, a wife, parent, sister in Christ, coworker, employee, etc. A narrow or wrong view of her roles can limit all God has for her. One of the misguided roles that some women accept (or resign to) is that of the doormat wife. Some husbands perpetuate this role, which creates a horrific context for abuse.
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