This week on RITF I am ecstatic to bring on Ben Buescher, one of many super dads out there, as a guest to talk about the all important topic of FATHERHOOD aka #dadlife! He is the husband to beauty guru Jen Chae, Jen "From head to toe". Together they not only have created an incredibly successful youtube channel and business, but a beautiful family with 2 of the cutest children in the whole wide world in Aria and Ezra. None of this is without extreme hard work in their relationship and personal development. I hope you enjoy this eye opening conversation with Ben as he gets real with the fears he faced in becoming a dad and growth he made internally to prepare to be the best dad he could be. We also discuss the hardships pre and post pregnancy for them as parents and how men can show up better and stay connected throughout the process. So whether you are a man or woman asking the question "Am I ready to be a dad?" or "Is my partner ready to be a dad?" maybe this episode will give you a little insight into that. 

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-instagram: @ben.ja.mins

Parent's social for Aria and Ezra:

-instagram: @tiptoe

Jen Chae's social:

-instagram/twitter/facebook: @frmheadtotoe

-youtube: https://www.youtube.com/frmheadtotoe

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This podcast is BACK and Ashley Matsunami as the first guest is back with it in a special Season 3 premier episode! We'll call this 'The Sequel' to her hit first episode, #15 'Why are men are so difficult!?' if you are curious. She is the former producer for Wong Fu Productions and currently working at Marvel Studios and most recently a part of the 'Shang Chi and Legend of the Ten Rings' production! So proud of her. Keep your eye out for her name in the credits. For this episode we get into a big event that happened in her life recently and that's she moved away and in with her boyfriend! It's a huge life event that can be stress inducing and also a very difficult transition for many. Get all the juicy details of how Ashley has handled, learned, and adjusted to this big change in her life. This is indeed "A survivor's guide to living with your partner!" episode as I have personally not only survived but thrived living with Christine for over 9 years. Tons of tidbits in here that may prepare you or help you cohabitate and coexist with your significant other better. 

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-instagram: @ashmats

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This is the season 2 finale episode! Episode 24 will affectionately also be known as the Kobe Bean Bryant episode (one of his retired jersey numbers is #24) and will be in memory of him and his daughter, Gianna Bryant, who tragically passed. Long live the mamba mentality! The topic of the episode will be to answer the question "Why men gotta lie?!" from a male perspective. I've long heard from many women who ask 'why it is so hard to find a man they can trust?', and think that good men are so hard to find. I will try to break down the reasons behind why I lied in my relationship with Christine and why lying for men becomes the go to solution that is influenced by societal culture of boys will be boys and guy code. There is so much to uncover with this topic so this is only the start of the conversation! 

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For this episode, we welcome back a staple of the show, Christine Chen! (my beautiful fiance, cohost of the perfectly imperfect podcast, host of the xoxo christine podcast, and a life coach)! It's only fitting for an episode about the "C" word, that Christine and I, your host Jack Chen, get nitty gritty and very personal about all the struggles we have dealt with in the course of our 9 year relationship centered around couples COMMUNICATION. The classic problem of women over communicating and men under communicating is an issue we have faced and still do in our relationship. Tune in to find out how we have adjusted to communicate better through lies I've told that led to a breakup to finally being engaged and on the cusp of getting married! We share so many tips for men and women in relationships as well as single to work on to reach that elusive next level of healthy communication. 

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Instagram: @xoxochristinechen

Life coaching: xoxochristine.com

Asian Soul Care: https://www.facebook.com/groups/asiansoulcare

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Let's try something new! These episodes will be a little more casual. They will be a window into my life happenings like how I celebrated Christine's birthday this past week, was I able to pull off a birthday surprise!? Also random musings, sparked thoughts, interesting concepts and conversations. For the first episode of Jack's journey entry, I speak a little on Men and Mindfulness. Why aren't men as thoughtful, especially compared to women? Why are guys so bad at buying their girlfriend's gifts? I am definitely guilty of that in my past relationships. It's like pulling teeth sometimes or studying for a test last minute for men. What are we missing here? Finally, is there a way to grow and develop awareness and mindfulness for these male friends, boyfriends, husbands, and brothers. Hint, there is! I am living proof. 

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What does Korean drama and porn have in common!?! Do you want to know all the dirty secrets of MEN and PORN? Should these secrets even be dirty? Are you a man wondering what the role of porn has been or should be in your life and how it might have affected your mentality and your relationships or are you a woman curious as to why men love porn so much, how men view women in real life versus women in porn? Is porn bad for the male psyche? Should women in relationships feel jealous or insecure because their boyfriends watch porn? There seem to be more questions than answers, more miscommunications and misunderstandings between men and women, on the topic of porn. Tune in to find out from my own personal experience what I have learned as I try to answer some of the questions above. Part 1, let's go!

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Why is dating so hard? Why do so many men post pictures of themselves and fish on their dating profiles? These are the mysteries and madness of dating that only this week's guest my dear friend Regina Fang (cohost of the perfectly imperfect podcast, founder of slow fashion clothing brand 'At Last'. and a TikTok star) and I can laugh and cry in pain about at the same time. Come join our conversation as Regina reveals what she has learned through the years of 'horrible' online dating experiences and I try to answer to just why men do the things they do in dating... Most of all, we try to answer what's the key and growth to dating success! 

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-instagram: @regina.fang

-tiktok: @regina.fang

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-instagram: @weaeratlast

-website: www.wearatlast.com

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My returning guest, Edward Lynn, has had my back since we were just 2 knuckle head lost boys, but now just 2 grown a little less lost men. He's a caretaker by nature not just by profession, being a nurse. One thing you will never get from our conversations will be sugarcoating and BS. Are you or do you know a guy (a friend, a brother, or boyfriend) that has felt lost and feeling alone because they can't find their HERO or their TRIBE? By hero I mean role model. This episode will be centered around the discussion of the struggle for many young men, especially asian men, in finding good and real role models. We talk about our personal journeys and how this very problem has led us to a path of role modeling and lastly finding and forming the right tribe. Know this, if you are reading this and listening to this episode, you are not alone, you don't need to keep the darkness to yourself. You can find the right hero and even grow to be your own and be that for others. 

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Do you want exclusive behind the scenes access to how beautiful Wong Fu Production shorts and series are shot and thoroughly planned? Do you want to know what it takes and how you can become an editor, producer, or assistant director for your favorite youtube channel? Well, my guest this week is not just my personal martial arts trainer and good friend, but he is affectionately known as Ben Dad, Benson the builder, and he is the producer and assistant director at Wong Fu Productions, Benson Quach! This man with a plan will spill all the tea about how his journey took him into the wild west of youtube, what he has learned, and what philosophies he continues to live by to survive, I mean THRIVE, in the world of lights, camera, PRODUCTION!

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-instagram/twitter/youtube: @bensonq

-tiktok: @bensonquach

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-instagram: @hey_jessq

-twitch: twitch.tv/jessthetician

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He's a talented musician, he's a Youtuber, he's a creator, he's the cofounder of takko app (the video app that pays, for creators, by creators!), most importantly he's a total ORIGINAL... He's my friend David Choi! This man is one of the hardest working people I know. It's only fitting we dive into how he has developed the true GRIT and GRIND mentality to survive and thrive in the music industry as an independent artist all the way to becoming an app creator with a deeply personal mission to help creators. Don't be afraid and jump on this rollercoaster with us!

Follow and find David Choi & takko app here!

Instagram & twitter & youtube: @davidchoimusic

Instagram: @takkoapp

Download takko app: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/takko/id1556959297

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