By Stacy Santiago
Ever wish you could stop doing All. The. Things? You know – the soul-crushing weight of a million tasks needed to keep your job and family going? If you’ve ever thought, “There’s not enough time in
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Making tough decisions sucks.
I don’t think anyone enjoys the process of making tough decisions because it can quickly spiral into over-thinking, procrastinating, and seeking what ends up being unhelpful advice.
And the worst part is the fear of making the wrong decision that could negatively impact us, our families, and the people we serve.
But we can’t get through life without coming to forks in the road and making choices. In today’s episode, I’m sharing with you my tough decision: why I decided to pause the podcast and how I built a mindset about it that was positive instead of negative.
Don’t worry, this is not goodbye. If you’re listening right now, I THANK YOU. Please know that I want you to be a loyal listener again soon. My plan is to relaunch the podcast in the spring. Same name, same theme of the Right Ordered Life, and more solutions that help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life’s demands, and have joy in a simplified life. God bless you always my friend!
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Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
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Have you ever tried to feel better, to fix the things that are quote “wrong” with you only to find that nothing has truly helped?
I get you. That’s why on today’s show, I’m diving deeper into emotional burdens, mistakes we make in dealing with these burdens, and how to finally lift them.
I’m telling you the truth that you’re not getting from overly simplistic self-help books, therapists, and Google so you can decide if you want to heal and have hope that you can calm your emotional storms and be empowered to feel good in a life you want to wake up to.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
* The top 3 mistakes you make when trying to deal trauma and negative emotion
* The 6 conditions for healing and why they work
* What you need to speak up, take risks, and give to yourself because the world won’t give it to you
-> Talk with Stacy
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Have you ever felt stuck with no way forward? You know you’re not happy, things aren’t working, but you don’t know how to change it.
One of the best things I can do to help you, my friend, is to give you proof that incredible personal and career change IS possible.
Pop in your ear buds and listen in because today my special guest, Erin Gehring, walks you through how she went from people pleasing and not even looking at herself in the mirror anymore to being authentic, not worrying about what other people think, and pursuing her dream job.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
* Why Erin had all the things she had ever wanted but still wasn’t happy
* What Erin had to FEEL and OVERCOME in order to like herself and make major life and career changes
*The 3 keys to healing and feeling confident without people pleasing
Get Erin's Body Shape and Styling Worksheet here.
You can find Erin at:
Facebook
Instagram
MorethanstyleLLC.com
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Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Truth bomb! Your brain is programmed to fool you into thinking that when you get what you want, you’ll be permanently satisfied.
If you’re like me, you’re tired of falling into the lie that you’ll be happy when you have or achieve something. On today’s episode, I’m showing you how to crush this lie and arm yourself with the strategy to keep your mind present and satisfied in who you are and what you have right now.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
* Why your brain believes the lie that when you get something you want, you’ll be satisfied.
* The real reasons you can’t stay satisfied…you always default back to THIS.
* 2 Specific strategies to stop thinking “I’ll be happy when" – and it’s not a gratitude journal!
-> Talk with Stacy
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
What if one simple thing could help you stop striving to feel like you’re enough?
What if you didn’t have to cross all the to-do’s off your list and please other people just so you don’t feel like you’re failing?
Listen in because this one small shift that I’m sharing with you today is a game-changer. It will do a 180 on your measure of enough and lighten your burden of achieving to feel worthy. That’s coming up…
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
* The terrible mistake I made when I used the wrong measure of worth
* The two sentences that will completely change your need to do and accomplish more
* How God sees the seeds of love you sow and the unseen but magnificent effect they have in His Kingdom
-> Talk with Stacy
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Knowing what you’re good at and how to use your strengths is confusing. Most of the time we ignore our strengths because we don’t know their value or maybe it feels too prideful to focus on them.
We need to burst this bubble because not knowing or downplaying your strengths hurts your confidence, fulfillment, your God-given purpose, and even your children.
Stay tuned because I’m going to show you why knowing your strengths is super important and three specific activities you can do today that will not only uncover your specific strengths but help you believe in them.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
* 4 Must-know reasons why finding your strengths and believing in them is super important.
* How to use the most effective strategies to uncover your strengths and avoid 4 big mistakes.
* 3 Specific activities including the Genius Zone that will help you clearly know your strengths!
-> Talk with Stacy
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Feeling overwhelmed is something you either detest or have come to tolerate as your normal daily life.
I spent many years shackled to overwhelm like a ball and chain. I wanted to escape it but didn’t know how or why I was stuck chained to it. Now that I’m in a place of peace and right order, overwhelm is like an old scruffy friend that pops up and actually helps me. Sounds weird right?
Tune in so you can flip overwhelm upside down and have the power to view it not as the enemy you detest, but the helper you’re grateful for. That’s coming up…
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
* The 2 game-changing ways overwhelm is a GOOD thing.
* How to leverage overwhelm as a signal that something isn’t right.
* The key questions you need to ask yourself so you can shift out of overwhelm into your natural window of peace that God designed for you.
-> Talk with Stacy
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Friendship. We know we need it. We are not meant to be alone. But often, we don’t act like God is our best friend.
If you don’t feel close to God, maybe it’s not that you don’t want God to be your all in all, but maybe you don’t know how? I know I struggle with the “how” of friendship with God – knowing how to get distractions out of the way, overcome my weaknesses, and how to simply love Him in return for loving me.
What does friendship with a mostly silent, invisible God look like anyway? Let’s figure it out together in today’s episode!
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
* The most likely reason you’re not spending the amount of time you want with God and how to break down this barrier
*The 5 characteristics of friendship with God that put you on a path to deeper connection and greater trust
*The 12 minute morning routine training video that will help you set up smooth, God-centered morning habits to fuel your day – for free!
-> Talk with Stacy
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Nope! Over my cold dead body.
Have you ever had that kind of resistance to letting go of control? I have.
Let’s be honest…when God asks us to give up love, friendship, your home, income – all measures of certainty and comfort – we struggle HARD.
Today my guest Kaela McKaig, is here to share her life-changing story of letting go and the key to trusting God to bring you through your trial to the other side.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL LEARN:
* 4 Reasons you don't want to let go...are you making these mistakes?
* How you know you can trust God and what happens when you do
* 4 Specific things you can do each day to practice trusting God
* The light bulb moment that was a total life-changer for Kaela and will be for you too!
You can find Kaela:
- On Instagram: @kaelaprays
- On her Podcast: His Word, My Walk
**Grab her free tool Powerful Prayers here
-> Talk with Stacy
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Do you ever feel like there’s a tug of war inside of you – a part of you feels one way, a part of you feels another way and you can’t figure out what to do?
Or, do you struggle with extreme bursts of emotion or coping behaviors that you can’t seem to stop? There’s an answer for all this and I’m not just sharing information about it.
Today I’m sharing my personal journey with a type of inner healing, a therapeutic modality that is really helping and giving me hope. I want you to have that hope too – that you can heal from painful emotions, confusion, and inner conflict so you can have so much more peace. That’s coming up…
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
* What Internal Family Systems (IFS) parts work is and why it’s so effective for boosting self-compassion, decreasing negative emotion, and breaking free from coping mechanisms
* How IFS can liberate you from 3 big mistakes you’re making
* Two specific exercises to get you started doing your own parts work today!
IFS Resources
What is IFS? Dr. Tori Olds
Visual Depiction of Manager, Firefighter, and Exile Parts
Directory of IFS trained therapists
Book: We All Have Parts: An Illustrated Guide to Healing Trauma with Internal Family Systems
-> Talk with Stacy
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
The podcast currently has 52 episodes available.