Multiplied Grace and Influence

Self-help Tools For Handling Emotional Damage

We can't allow the negative experiences we've had change us, make us become bitter and miserable towards life 

We've been called to be light, we've been called to give hope to the world. We can't hold on to anger and hurt, giving room to sin.

Helpful tools for healing

1. The word of God

Allow God's word influence your perspective, your worldview, your expectations and your reactions.

2. Self talk.

Learn to say things about yourself that aligns with what God has said about you 

3. Prayer.

Prayer allows you to accept divine possibilities. Prayer changes you.

Vulnerability

Handling Impostor Syndrome

Normal People, Supernatural God

Power In Abundance

Love-Walk towards towards the house of God

Enjoying singleness and navigating dating

We've somehow adopted the societal ideology that a person isn't complete if they are single.

You aren't a second class person in God's agenda because you are single.

Things to know about being single

• Singleness is not a time to explore, it's a time to be alone. Some of us are always chasing distractions, trying to escape our lives. We need to learn to enjoy our own company.

• Singleness is a time to heal and move on from past hurts.A time to build good platonic relationships and create healthy boundaries with members of the opposite sex.

• Singleness is the best time to serve God, to discover yourself, work on becoming better, start building things that will last.

When moving to a talking stage

•Exploration

Finding out what's there, asking questions, finding out about gender roles, perspectives on life, family finance, etc.

•Negotiation

Trying to figure out if some things can be changed or compromises made. Negotiation should be done in a non confrontational way so that even if no common ground is reached, there isn't any bitterness or bad blood.

•[Flirtation]

Learn to be a sweet person, listen to the things they say, being attentive to their complaints. Notice the sacrifices and efforts to change things that you've complained about.

As you transition to dating

•Date someone that God can talk to. This is important, but not complete.

•Date someone that is accountable to someone else, as confirmed by that person. Someone that can speak to them when they're being unreasonable.

• Date someone that listens to you

FAMILY FRIEND 

How to lead your friends to the family of God

Invitation works for people that has see you finish than preaching. If you're going to lead your loved ones to God, you've to invite them to church 

Simple tips to invitation 

1.Plant a vision or appeal to their greatest need John 1:44-46

2.Perseverance John 1:40-41

3.Wisdom. Wisdom works together with perseverance, let them know you really love them, before inviting them.

4.Actually invite them 

5. Prayer

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