I can't remember the source, but I once read a study that showed that on average there is at least 1 person in every family that struggles with some form OCD, ADD, ADHD, ASD, SPD...the list goes on. The key word to notice is "struggle." These struggles are real and often affects the entire family on a daily basis. It's really a different kind of hard. I honestly don't have words to describe the daily effort to function. But if you have experienced it, you know it, and this is for you. You are not alone.