RNY Besties - Real Talk

In this episode we talk about transfer addictions we have experienced since having bariatric surgery.

Since food is no longer a source of comfort, reward or escape. Other behaviors or substances now substitute for eating, and become unhealthy. Some examples of transfer addiction are gambling, shopping, as well as addictions to alcohol.

Transfer addition can lead to bigger issues in the long run if not taken seriously and if you don't seek help. It's important to recognize these things and talk with your team to find ways to over come them.

Things that have helped us are we talk about them...now they are not a secret and we can address them. Finding other things to take their place that are healthy and supports our goals and the life we want to live. We again talk about them, but to realize that while shopping may not sound like a bad transfer addiction; it can lead to financial hardship if not dealt with. We find prayer works - when we pray and give it to God we feel lighter and we can find strength in knowing he will help us get through this, just as he had helped is get through many other difficult situations.

If you feel like you are struggling with transfer addiction, we recommend confiding in someone. That can be a friend, your medical team or even us...it is better to get it out in the open so you can begin to work through it. There are many resources available online and locally - below are some sites and groups we have found that offer great information and help.

BariNation - www.instagram.com/barination

The OAC - www.obesityaction.org

Lora Garbow - Therapist/Coach - https://www.loragrabow.com

We're Back Besties!!

Season 2 is live...this episode is full of all the updates as we go over Sarah's crazy move across the country and back again and Jessica juggling regain/anxiety issues to crazy teenage schedules and life as a busy mom. We couldn't do an episode without giving you an update on our RNY journey's - Sarah is almost a year post-op and Jessica is now a little over 2 years post-op.

This season is full of real and RAW topics, some unpopular topics and some fun ones...and yes; everything in between. We are filming each episode - so check us out on Instagram, Facebook and now YouTube...and of course check us out on most podcast platforms!

Thinking of having weight loss surgery but not sure where to start or what to do?

Jess and Sarah share the steps they went through and what was required for someone who is going through insurance vs self pay! 

Every bariatric program is different - be sure to follow the specific steps given to you by your program. Remember to ask questions - no question is a silly one!

In this episode we talk about "What To Expect 1-3 Months Post-Op"! 

**Note - Everyone's journeys are different, we are sharing what we experienced during the first 3 months post op!**

Both Jess and Sarah experienced changes in taste buds, energy levels just to name a couple. 

In this episode Jess and Sarah talk about Jess's recent regain. Jess went through a period of darkness and feeling like she was alone and a failure. We talk through what did Jess went through and some good ways to get back on track. Jess' advice - keep it simple and as stress-free as possible!