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  • Blocked, Ghosted or Grace? A Panel on Friendship, Fallouts & Forgiveness After Forty | RRWS Podcast (AUDIO ONLY)

    Some friendships last four months. Ours lasted over four decades… but not without some fights, faith shifts, and full-on fallouts.

    In Episode 5 of our Friends After 40 series, host Natasha Elaine is joined by four real ones — Keedah, Jamila, Keisha, and Kia — childhood friends who have walked through 40+ years of life together. From middle school beef to married-mom misunderstandings, we get honest about what keeps a friendship rooted when everything around you changes.

    We talk boundaries, betrayal, forgiveness, ghosting, and the grace it takes to choose each other again — or walk away in love.

    📍Whether you’re the one who walked away, got blocked, or gave the benefit of the doubt one too many times, this episode is your sign to reflect:

    👉🏾 Is this a conversation, a prayer, or a release?

    🔑 Topics We Cover:
    • The unspoken rules of long-term friendship

    • God, growth, and giving grace after girlhood

    • When to fight for your friends — and when to surrender them to God

    • The difference between loyalty and trauma bonding

    • Laughs, lessons, and one raw, real quiz: Unfollow or Forgive?

      📖 Scripture Tie-In:

      Matthew 5:23–24 — “First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift.”

      🎶 Kingdom Artists Featured:

      DKG KIE – “Bible Blicky Baby,” “There She Go,” and “She Blessed”
      🎵 SOTW (Song of the Week): “Holy Huh? Remix” – DKG KIE ft. Anike & Porsha Love

      🎁 FREEBIE DOWNLOAD:

      Grab your Unfollow or Forgive? Quiz + Devotional to help you decide if it’s a pause, a prayer, or a permanent unfollow:
      👉🏾 rrwspodcast.com/freebies

      🪴 WOTW (Word of the Week): HOLY

      Being set apart doesn’t mean being isolated. It means being aligned.

      🎧 Listen to the full episode now and catch us LIVE every Monday at noon on ICU Radio 97.3 via Live365.com

      Catch the Radio Replay on Mixcloud.com/rrwspodcast

      👑 Faith meets friendship. Forgiveness meets fruit. Let’s grow, Soil Seekers.

      25 min
    • Blocked, Ghosted or Grace? A Panel on Friendship, Fallouts & Forgiveness After Forty | RRWS Podcast

      Some friendships last four months. Ours lasted over four decades… but not without some fights, faith shifts, and full-on fallouts.

      In Episode 5 of our Friends After 40 series, host Natasha Elaine is joined by four real ones — Keedah, Jamila, Keisha, and Kia — childhood friends who have walked through 40+ years of life together. From middle school beef to married-mom misunderstandings, we get honest about what keeps a friendship rooted when everything around you changes.

      We talk boundaries, betrayal, forgiveness, ghosting, and the grace it takes to choose each other again — or walk away in love.

      📍Whether you’re the one who walked away, got blocked, or gave the benefit of the doubt one too many times, this episode is your sign to reflect:

      👉🏾 Is this a conversation, a prayer, or a release?

      🔑 Topics We Cover:
      • The unspoken rules of long-term friendship

      • God, growth, and giving grace after girlhood

      • When to fight for your friends — and when to surrender them to God

      • The difference between loyalty and trauma bonding

      • Laughs, lessons, and one raw, real quiz: Unfollow or Forgive?

        📖 Scripture Tie-In:

        Matthew 5:23–24 — “First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift.”

        🎶 Kingdom Artists Featured:

        DKG KIE – “Bible Blicky Baby,” “There She Go,” and “She Blessed”
        🎵 SOTW (Song of the Week): “Holy Huh? Remix” – DKG KIE ft. Anike & Porsha Love

        🎁 FREEBIE DOWNLOAD:

        Grab your Unfollow or Forgive? Quiz + Devotional to help you decide if it’s a pause, a prayer, or a permanent unfollow:
        👉🏾 rrwspodcast.com/freebies

        🪴 WOTW (Word of the Week): HOLY

        Being set apart doesn’t mean being isolated. It means being aligned.

        🎧 Listen to the full episode now and catch us LIVE every Monday at noon on ICU Radio 97.3 via Live365.com

        Catch the Radio Replay on Mixcloud.com/rrwspodcast

        👑 Faith meets friendship. Forgiveness meets fruit. Let’s grow, Soil Seekers.

        32 min
      • Equally Yoked Friendships After 40? Spirit-Led, God-Tied & Growing in Faith | AUDIO ONLY | ROADS ROCKS WEEDS + SOIL Podcast

        Is your inner circle equally yoked — or just familiar?

        In Episode 4 of the Friends After Forty series, host Natasha Elaine sits down with longtime friend Rashida Rose, Esq. to explore what it really means to be spiritually aligned in friendship. From prayer partners to study sisters, this conversation dives deep into the power of faith-based friendships and why being “equally yoked” is a must — not just in dating, but in your day ones.

        If you've ever outgrown a friend…

        If you’ve felt spiritually lonely in a crowded circle…
        Or if you’re wondering whether a friend is God-sent or soul-tied...

        This one’s for you.

        💡 WHAT YOU'LL HEAR:
        • The difference between God-tied & trauma-bonded friendships

        • How faith alignment affects your peace, purpose & progress

        • Why some friendships shift as you grow closer to God

        • When to pray, when to pause, and when to release

          📖 SCRIPTURE SPOTLIGHT:
          • 2 Corinthians 6:14 – "Do not be unequally yoked..."

          • Amos 3:3 – "Can two walk together unless they agree?"

          • Matthew 18:20 – "Where two or three gather in My name..."

            🎁 FREEBIE:

            Download the "Equally Yoked Friendship Audit"

            A faith-based worksheet to help you assess and pray through your current friendships.
            👉 rrwspodcast.com/FREEBIES

            🎧 TUNE IN:

            Catch the full episode now on Roads, Rocks, Weeds & Soil Radio — airing on ICU Radio 97.3 and streaming on all platforms.

            23 min
          • Friends After 40 – Bro Code, Boundaries & Platonic Peace | Roads Rocks Weeds + Soil Audio Podcast

            All praise to the Man Above 🙌 In Episode 3 of Friends After 40 (Roads, Rocks, Weeds & Soil), host Natasha Elaine sits with her college best friend, Professor Alex Welcome, to unpack what the Bro Code looks like after 40.

            They dive into:

            • Can men and women stay just friends — and still keep it God-honoring?

            • Why boundaries protect both friendship and marriage

            • How rumors and misconceptions threaten platonic peace

            • Why respect is the soil that keeps a 30-year friendship thriving

            • The surprise “saved” conversation that tested their definitions of faith

              📖 Scripture Highlights: 1 Corinthians 14:33 • Proverbs 4:23 • James 1:8 • Romans 12:10

              🎵 Kingdom Artist Feature: Aaron Cole

              Songs: Man Above, Like You, Metro, Right On Time
              Song of the Week: Live Forever – 116 ft. Aaron Cole, Tedashii, Trip Lee

              🎁 FREEBIE ALERT: Download the That’s Just My Bro/Bestie Checklist for Platonic Peace → rrwspodcast.com/freebies

              💬 Question of the Week:

              Can men and women stay just friends after 40 — and still keep it God-honoring? Drop your thoughts!

              25 min
            • Toxic Friends After 40? | How to Create a GenXennial Girl Code for Healthy Friendships | RRWS Podcast

              Toxic Friends After 40? Time to Create Your GenXennial Girl Code! 🌱

              Y’all, in Episode 2 of Friends After 40, Natasha Elaine gets real about toxic friendships, loyalty, and God’s plan for your relationships. This episode is full of laughs, lessons, and faith-forward truths.

              ✨ Here’s what you’ll discover:

              • How to spot toxic friends before they drain your peace

              • How to create your GenXennial Girl Code for boundaries and spiritual alignment

              • How to rebuild or protect friendships that are worth the fight

              • Biblical guidance on loyalty, honesty, and letting go (Proverbs 27:6, Romans 12:18, John 8:32)

                🎁 Free Resource:

                Download the Grown Woman / GenXennial Girl Code Worksheet to define your friendship boundaries and grow spiritually: rrwspodcast.com

                🎵 Songs featured in this episode:

                Only available on ICU Radio 97.3 or Mixcloud.com

                • Yahweh by ANIKE with Porsha Love 

                • No Problem by Dante Pride featuring Porsha Love

                • Let Go & Let God (Holy Girl Remix) by 1K Phew featuring Porsha Love

                • Love So Sweet by Chasity featuring Porsha Love

                  👯 Tag a friend who needs this guidance and share your girl code wisdom!

                  Episode Notes / Key Takeaways
                  • Toxic friendships can quietly drain your joy and faith—recognize the signs early.

                  • Letting go isn’t betrayal; it’s wisdom when God is guiding your steps.

                  • Build friendships that glorify God and help you grow spiritually.

                  • Communication, honesty, and emotional intelligence are your tools for maintaining strong bonds.

                  • Your GenXennial Girl Code is a blueprint for boundaries, loyalty, and walking in alignment with God.

                    Scripture References:

                    • Proverbs 27:6 – “Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but deceitful are the kisses of an enemy.”

                    • Romans 12:18 – “If possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”

                    • John 8:32 – “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”

                    • Ephesians 4:15 – “Speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ.”

                      Toxic friends after 40, Friends after 40, GenXennial girl code, Grown woman girl code, Healthy friendships, Friendship boundaries, Faith-based friendship advice, Christian podcast friendships, Letting go of toxic friends, Proverbs 27:6, John 8:32 truth, Emotional intelligence in friendships, Female friendships after 40, How to deal with toxic friends, Spiritual alignment in friendships, Friendship advice for women, Navigating adult friendships, Friendship tips for women over 40, Faith and friendship, Christian women advice

                      • Download your free GenXennial Girl Code Worksheet: rrwspodcast.com

                      • Follow RRWS Podcast on social media:

                        • Instagram: @rrwspodcast

                        • Facebook: RRWS Podcast

                        • Share your story: Have you ever had to let go of a friend God was calling you away from? Comment or DM us!

                          22 min
                        • Toxic Friends After 40? | How to Create a GenXennial Girl Code for Healthy Friendships | RRWS Podcast | AUDIO ONLY

                          Toxic Friends After 40? Time to Create Your GenXennial Girl Code! 🌱

                          Y’all, in Episode 2 of Friends After 40, Natasha Elaine gets real about toxic friendships, loyalty, and God’s plan for your relationships. This episode is full of laughs, lessons, and faith-forward truths.

                          ✨ Here’s what you’ll discover:

                          • How to spot toxic friends before they drain your peace

                          • How to create your GenXennial Girl Code for boundaries and spiritual alignment

                          • How to rebuild or protect friendships that are worth the fight

                          • Biblical guidance on loyalty, honesty, and letting go (Proverbs 27:6, Romans 12:18, John 8:32)

                            🎁 Free Resource:

                            Download the Grown Woman / GenXennial Girl Code Worksheet to define your friendship boundaries and grow spiritually: rrwspodcast.com

                            🎵 Songs featured in this episode:

                            • Yahweh by ANIKE with Porsha Love 

                            • No Problem by Dante Pride featuring Porsha Love

                            • Let Go & Let God (Holy Girl Remix) by 1K Phew featuring Porsha Love

                            • Love So Sweet by Chasity featuring Porsha Love

                              👯 Tag a friend who needs this guidance and share your girl code wisdom!

                              Episode Notes / Key Takeaways
                              • Toxic friendships can quietly drain your joy and faith—recognize the signs early.

                              • Letting go isn’t betrayal; it’s wisdom when God is guiding your steps.

                              • Build friendships that glorify God and help you grow spiritually.

                              • Communication, honesty, and emotional intelligence are your tools for maintaining strong bonds.

                              • Your GenXennial Girl Code is a blueprint for boundaries, loyalty, and walking in alignment with God.

                                Scripture References:

                                • Proverbs 27:6 – “Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but deceitful are the kisses of an enemy.”

                                • Romans 12:18 – “If possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”

                                • John 8:32 – “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”

                                • Ephesians 4:15 – “Speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ.”

                                  Toxic friends after 40, Friends after 40, GenXennial girl code, Grown woman girl code, Healthy friendships, Friendship boundaries, Faith-based friendship advice, Christian podcast friendships, Letting go of toxic friends, Proverbs 27:6, John 8:32 truth, Emotional intelligence in friendships, Female friendships after 40, How to deal with toxic friends, Spiritual alignment in friendships, Friendship advice for women, Navigating adult friendships, Friendship tips for women over 40, Faith and friendship, Christian women advice

                                   
                                  • Download your free GenXennial Girl Code Worksheet: rrwspodcast.com

                                  • Follow RRWS Podcast on social media:

                                    • Instagram: @rrwspodcast

                                    • Facebook: RRWS Podcast

                                    • Share your story: Have you ever had to let go of a friend God was calling you away from? Comment or DM us!

                                      22 min
                                    • No New Friends? Lonely vs Busy | Friends After 40 EP1 AUDIO ONLY | Natasha Elaine | Roads, Rocks, Weeds, + Soil

                                      Is it loneliness or just life happening? In this first episode of the Friends After Forty series, Natasha Elaine explores the emotional distance, spiritual pruning, and social shifts that make adult friendship hard — especially when you're over 40, faith-driven, and emotionally spent.

                                      We talk about:

                                      • What makes friendships fade after 40
                                      • The difference between being alone and being busy
                                      • The weeds of comparison, busyness, and trauma bonds
                                      • Finding new friends without faking the funk
                                      • How to reconnect with God and community
                                      • Staying in your lane without blocking connection
                                      • 🎧 Featured Songs by TK Lee (only on RRWSPodcast: The Radio Edit on ICU Radio 97.3):

                                        1. “Fake Ones”
                                        2. “Lane”
                                        3. “Mobbin”
                                        4. Song of the Week: “HI-C” feat. Anike & Porsha Love
                                        5. 📥 Grab your free Friendship Audit Worksheet:

                                          👉 https://rrwspodcast.com/freebies

                                          📓 Journal Prompt:

                                          Who do I miss — and who am I forcing to stay? Who is God preparing me to walk with next?

                                          🙏 Scripture Highlights:

                                          • Ecclesiastes 4:9–10
                                          • Proverbs 4:23
                                          • Isaiah 43:18–19
                                          • Proverbs 18:24
                                          • 🎙️ Roads, Rocks, Weeds & Soil: The Radio Edit airs weekly on ICU Radio 97.3 and streams here on YouTube.

                                            Hosted by Natasha Elaine | IG: @rrwspodcast | More: https://rrwspodcast.com

                                            18 min
                                          • No New Friends? Lonely vs Busy | Friends After 40 EP1 | Natasha Elaine | Roads, Rocks, Weeds, + Soil

                                            Is it loneliness or just life happening? In this first episode of the Friends After Forty series, Natasha Elaine explores the emotional distance, spiritual pruning, and social shifts that make adult friendship hard — especially when you're over 40, faith-driven, and emotionally spent.

                                            We talk about:

                                            • What makes friendships fade after 40
                                            • The difference between being alone and being busy
                                            • The weeds of comparison, busyness, and trauma bonds
                                            • Finding new friends without faking the funk
                                            • How to reconnect with God and community
                                            • Staying in your lane without blocking connection
                                            • 🎧 Featured Songs by TK Lee (only on RRWSPodcast: The Radio Edit on ICU Radio 97.3):

                                              1. “Fake Ones”
                                              2. “Lane”
                                              3. “Mobbin”
                                              4. Song of the Week: “HI-C” feat. Anike & Porsha Love
                                              5. 📥 Grab your free Friendship Audit Worksheet:

                                                👉 https://rrwspodcast.com/freebies

                                                📓 Journal Prompt:

                                                Who do I miss — and who am I forcing to stay? Who is God preparing me to walk with next?

                                                🙏 Scripture Highlights:

                                                • Ecclesiastes 4:9–10
                                                • Proverbs 4:23
                                                • Isaiah 43:18–19
                                                • Proverbs 18:24
                                                • 🎙️ Roads, Rocks, Weeds & Soil: The Radio Edit airs weekly on ICU Radio 97.3 and streams here on YouTube.

                                                  Hosted by Natasha Elaine | IG: @rrwspodcast | More: https://rrwspodcast.com

                                                  18 min
                                                • The Bag, The Budget & The Breakthrough Series: Breaking Broke – Healing Your Money, Mindset & Mission Host: Natasha Elaine | Roads, Rocks, Weeds & Soil Podcast

                                                  Welcome to the finale of the Breaking Broke series.

                                                  In this episode, we’re not just talking money — we’re talking mission, mindset, and the kind of peace that can't be purchased. Host Natasha Elaine shares how God used heartbreak, fasting, decluttering, and divine redirection to redefine prosperity — not as wealth without wisdom, but as Shalom: peace, purpose, and provision working together.

                                                  If you’ve ever:

                                                  • Prayed while overdrafted

                                                  • Struggled with shame around money

                                                  • Fought to protect your peace

                                                  • Felt called to steward more but didn’t know how...

                                                    This episode is for you.

                                                    In this final installment, you’ll learn:

                                                    ✅ Why faith is not a financial plan — but obedience is
                                                    ✅ How stewardship builds peace, not pressure
                                                    ✅ What it means to align your Bible, budget, and bag
                                                    ✅ Where to start if you’re rebuilding from rock bottom

                                                    📌 Resources Mentioned:

                                                    • The First Seed (Free): Pray, Align & Listen Kit

                                                    • Budgeted & Blessed Toolkit: Templates, Journal Prompts, Audio Prayers

                                                    • Breaking Broke Strategy Suite: Credit, Pricing, Monetizing Your Mission

                                                    • Rooted & Ready VIP Experience: Mission Mapping + Spirit-Led Strategy

                                                      Start now → rrwspodcast.com/freebies

                                                      📖 Scriptures:

                                                      Deuteronomy 8:18, Proverbs 24:3–4, Proverbs 3:9–10, Psalm 1, Isaiah 55:11, Joshua 1:8

                                                      🧠 Host: Natasha Elaine – Storyteller, Soil Strategist, and founder of Roads, Rocks, Weeds & Soil

                                                      10 min
                                                    • The Bag, The Budget & The Breakthrough Series: Breaking Broke – Healing Your Money, Mindset & Mission Host: Natasha Elaine | Roads, Rocks, Weeds & Soil Podcast_AUDIO

                                                      This is the finale. And if you've been riding with us through the Breaking Broke series, then you already know: it’s been real, it’s been raw, and it’s been rich — not rich like Rolls Royce and rosé, but rich in clarity, conviction, and calling.

                                                      In this episode, Natasha shares how the series began — not with a business plan, but with a breakup. Not from abundance, but from the wilderness. She walks through the moment she realized budgeting wasn’t about money… it was about healing. From decluttering closets to declaring peace, from fasting to faith, this is the story behind the strategy.

                                                      You’ll hear why the real breakthrough wasn’t in the bank account — it was in the Bible.

                                                      And now? We’re building with wisdom, budgeting with faith, and protecting peace on purpose.

                                                      Inside this final conversation:

                                                      • Why faith isn’t a financial plan — but obedience is

                                                      • The shift from shame to stewardship

                                                      • How to start with The First Seed (a free guided devotional + prayer kit)

                                                      • Tools for budgeting, rebuilding credit, and aligning your money with your mission

                                                      • What Proverbs 24 and Deuteronomy 8:18 teach us about real wealth

                                                        If you’re ready to steward better, grow wiser, and stop robbing Peter to pay Paul — this episode is for you.

                                                        🎧 Explore all the tools mentioned at: rrwspodcast.com/FREEBIES

                                                        10 min

                                                      About ROADS ROCKS WEEDS + SOIL

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                                                      Roads, Rocks, Weeds + Soil is a faith-based podcast that helps GenXennial listeners navigate life’s challenges through raw conversations, expert insights, and personal healing strategies. Designed for…