Rob’s Inner Circle

Rob's Inner Circle -EP20- With Kimberly Spencer


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KIMBERLY SPENCER: I believe in miracles, Manolos, and that there is power + profit in mistakes. A born-n-raised Valley Girl, powered by green juice, Italian espresso, and gallons of glitter, I am proud to have helped hundreds of leaders build their empire, breakthrough their body barriers, revolutionize their relationships, and rewrite their stories of self-sabotage into a story of success, in all areas of their life.  

WHAT’S YOUR STORY? For as long as I can remember I’ve been obsessed with stories of women who go from rags to riches, from fear to success, and vice versa. What separates those who cave into their circumstances while others climb to the top?  

WHY DO SOME SELF-DESTRUCT AND OTHERS SUCCEED? As a child I always was attracted to powerful female human characters…mainly princesses…who ruled with passion, purpose, and who pioneered their own path. Every movie. Every book. Every bedtime story. My mom even had to dig deep into the bowels of library literature from ye olden days to find new princess stories. I couldn’t get enough of them. I was fascinated by their humanity, despite their royal status.  I hid inside these characters and buried myself in my imagination to escape the truth of what was going on at home. Addiction ran rampant in my house: my dad the addict, my mom the quintessential codependent. It was then, as a child when I made the decision to be an actress.   

I ACTED IN ALL THE WRONG PLACES - IN MY ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS + IN MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MYSELF. I acted like I was fine when I wasn’t. I acted happy when all I wanted to do was cry. I acted healthy when all I wanted to do was puke. I started doing a dangerous dance with bulimia, body image issues, and blame that lasted 10 years. The funny thing is, most people thought I had my shit together…like really well. And, yet, I soldiered on with my story of "being the victim," blaming others for my pain.  

THE STORIES WE TELL OURSELVES ARE THE MOST PROFOUND…AND USUALLY NOT TRUE. I created this powerful story in my mind that affected every part of me - my career, my relationships, and my relationship with my body. I believed I was broken. So I continued to break off pieces of me to fit into other people’s molds of what I thought they wanted me to be. I was a chameleon. Adapting to survive.  

IN MY STORY, I WAS NEVER ENOUGH.  Not perfect enough. Not smart enough. Not working hard enough. Not skinny enough. Not lovable enough. So I constantly had to PROVE myself. Prove my “enoughness.” And, man did I try.  

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