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Bridgerton is back, and so are we. 💌

In this second installment of our Bridgerton deep dive, we’re breaking down the pursuer–withdrawer dynamic and what “earned secure” actually means — through the romantic chaos of Benedict, Sophie, Anthony, and the Duke.

We cover:

• What attachment styles really are (and what they’re not)
• The pursuer–withdrawer dynamic in relationships
• Why big emotions aren’t always romance
• Power dynamics, communication, and emotional regulation
• How to move toward secure attachment — no matter your starting point

Romance is delicious. Fantasy is fun.
 But we still believe: we create our own happily ever afters.

New Bridgerton episodes drop weekly this month, leading up to our live Bridgerton Afternoon Tea in March.

Tell us your hot take — what did this season reveal about your attachment style?

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Bridgerton is back, and we’re kicking off our month-long Bridgerton Central event with a look at the best and not-so-great love lessons from the first half of Season 4.

What We Loved

• Francesca & John’s calm, respectful communication
• More vulnerability and open conversations about intimacy
• Dating without putting “future spouse” pressure on every interaction
• Reminder that real love grows in reality, not fantasy

What Made Us Side-Eye

• The “reformed rake” myth
• Benedict’s power imbalance and lack of clear communication
• Bare-minimum behavior being treated as heroic
• Eloise’s rigid identity and jealousy this season

Big Takeaway:
Healthy relationships are built on honesty, respect, vulnerability, and consent — not grand gestures or fantasy projections.

Join the Fun

• New Bridgerton episodes weekly through February
• Daily Instagram content and polls
• Live Bridgerton Afternoon Tea in March
• Leave us a voicemail at RomComRescue.com or DM us your hot takes!

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Bridgerton is back—and before the tea is sipped and the masquerade begins, we’re setting the table.

In this Bridgerton Central Pre-Game episode, Kira and Izzy break down everything we’re excited (and slightly nervous) about as Season 4 approaches—starting with the most fascinating Bridgerton brother of them all: Benedict.

Why has Benedict spent three seasons wandering, creating art, and falling into secret, emotionally safe relationships? Why now? And what would real growth actually look like for him—beyond love-at-first-sight and grand gestures?

We dig into:

• Benedict’s full relationship history—and what it reveals
• His avoidant-coded patterns and emotional “safe plays”
• Why humor, charm, and being the fun one can be a defense
• What we hope to see instead of a quick Cinderella-style transformation
• The difference between falling in love and choosing to show up intentionally

Plus, we talk:

• Masquerade vibes, Cinderella coding, and why Ever After still holds up
• Power dynamics, nervous system safety, and class imbalance in love stories
• Violet Bridgerton’s blooming!
• Francesca’s storyline, quiet love vs. chaotic love, and why that distinction matters
• Lady Danbury, the Queen, and the backstories we’re dying to see
• Cressida Cowper: villain, victim, or misunderstood chaos agent?

And because this is Bridgerton Central, it’s not just a podcast—it’s a conversation.

📣 Join the Conversation

We want your thoughts, theories, and hot takes all month long:

• 🎙️ Leave us a voicemail via SpeakPipe at romcomrescue.com (you might be featured on the show!)
• 📲 Slide into our Instagram DMs
• 🗳️ Vote in polls, play along with games, and grab your Bridgerton Bingo card
• 🎭 Follow along daily on Instagram for reels, carousels, and very serious Ton commentary

Next week, the real watching begins as we kick off Episode 1 of our weekly Bridgerton breakdowns, covering love lessons, red flags, nervous system notes, and relationship dynamics—RomCom Rescue style.

✨ New episodes drop every Wednesday for the next five weeks.

Because at the end of the day…
 We believe we make our own happily ever afters.
And we’ll meet you in the Ton. 🫖💜

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College friends. Annual vacations. Questionable boundaries. And the illusion that everything works better when life is on pause.

This week on RomCom Rescue, Kira Sabin and Dr. Isabelle Morley break down Netflix’s People We Meet on Vacation, starring Emily Bader and Tom Blyth — a friends-to-lovers story that should work… but maybe doesn’t.

We talk about:

• Why “vacation chemistry” is not the same as real-life compatibility
• The outdated question of “Can men and women be friends?”
• Emotional intimacy, blurry boundaries, and what actually creates problems in relationships
• Why attraction alone doesn’t mean you should build a life together
• And the big miss that kept this romance from fully landing

Fair warning: we liked parts of it… and still had a lot to say.

💡 Key Love Lessons We Break Down

1. Vacation You ≠ Real-Life You

Being relaxed, playful, and day-drinking in Tuscany is not the same as navigating:

2. “Can Men and Women Be Friends?” Is the Wrong Question

 Avoidance, lack of clarity, and unspoken dynamics are.

3. Attraction Is Human — What You Do With It Matters

4. Chemistry vs. Compatibility

• Chemistry asks: Do I feel pulled toward you?
• Compatibility asks: Can our lives actually work together?

5. Emotional Closeness Needs Clarity

🎧 Coming Next Week - Our Bridgerton Event!

✨ Bridgerton Pre-Game Episode
What we love. What we don’t. What we’re hoping to see.
Costumes included. Obviously.

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This week on Rom-Com Rescue, we are diving headfirst into the internet-melting, emotionally devastating, wildly addictive rom-com series Heated Rivalry starring Hudson Williams and Connor Storrie (2025), now streaming on HBO Max.

Hockey rivals.
Secret lovers.
A decade-long slow burn.
One cottage that changed everything.
And yes — some of the most talked-about butts on screen.

We’re breaking down why Heated Rivalry has taken over timelines, group chats, and late-night thoughts — and why this story hits so deeply for so many people.

On the surface, this is a sexy rivals-to-lovers romance between Shane Hollander and Ilya Rozanov. But underneath? This show taps directly into anxious attachment, avoidant coping, long-distance fantasy, secrecy, and the very human desire to be chosen — fully and openly.

In this episode, Kira and Dr. Isabelle Morley unpack:

• Why long-distance + time creates powerful fantasy bonds
• How secrecy intensifies intimacy (and where it goes wrong)
• The anxious–avoidant push/pull dynamic at the heart of the story
• Why sex can feel like closeness — even when emotional intimacy is missing
• What makes this show feel emotionally safe in a way so many romances don’t

We also talk about:

• Why this story resonated so strongly with women
• What it means to feel wanted vs. chosen
• Healthy vs. unhealthy longing
• Representation without trauma
• And why so many of us are still thinking about the cottage

This is not a recap podcast.
This is a relationship dynamics deep dive — and Heated Rivalry gives us a LOT to work with.

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House swapping, hot drunk Englishman, personal movie trailers, and Mr. Napkinhead!

That's right, we are watching the 2006 rom-com series THE HOLIDAY, with Kate Winslet, Cameron DIaz, Jude Law and Jack Black.

In this episode of RomCom Rescue, Kira and Dr. Isabelle go deep into the cozy chaos of The Holiday—house swaps, emotional avoidance, unrequited “love,” and why Jasper is the human equivalent of a walking red flag.

You’ll hear us unpack:

• Iris, Jasper, and the myth of unrequited love
  • Why Iris’s “epic love story” with Jasper is actually a long-term crush with terrible ROI
  • How we confuse attention with intention
  • What it really costs you to keep hanging on to someone who will never fully choose you
• Crush vs. Love (a.k.a. Love-Adjacent Feelings)
  • What makes a crush different from genuine love
  • How fantasy can feel safer than real intimacy
  • Questions to ask yourself if you’ve been stuck on someone for months (or years)
• Amanda, emotional avoidance, and finally crying in the car
  • Why some people literally can’t cry and what’s underneath that
  • How emotional unavailability shows up in relationships
  • The difference between calling someone out vs. weaponizing their coping skills
• Graham, kids, and complicated timing
  • The rush into “I love you” after two weeks (with children involved)
  • What a healthier “I have feelings for you” might sound like
  • Why step-parent energy needs more than a holiday montage to work
• Miles, green flags, and why friendship-first relationships matter
  • Why Miles is basically a walking green flag (with one big misstep)
  • The tension between prioritizing romantic partners vs. friendships
  • How both Iris and Miles are recovering from lopsided relationships
• Best friends vs. leading ladies
  • Arthur’s iconic line about being the leading lady in your own life
  • Why we’re done equating being “the best friend” with being less deserving of love
  • How to stop sidelining yourself in your own story
• Sex, foreplay & bad messages we don’t want you absorbing
  • Why “foreplay is overrated” is a terrible love (and sex) lesson
  • What good, enthusiastic, mutual intimacy actually looks like
• Holiday comfort, nostalgia, and a little trivia
  • Nancy Meyers house porn, Blackberry sightings, and OG house swapping
  • The real-life history between Kate Winslet and Rufus Sewell
  • Why this is one of Isabelle’s all-time favorite rom-coms and Kira’s go-to holiday rewatch

Finally, we rate The Holiday on both movie joy and love lessons—with Isabelle wildly breaking the 5-star system and Kira pretending to enforce it.

Join us next for 2025 Holiday Rom-Com - My Secret Santa

Currently streaming on Netflix.

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Ring mix-ups. NYC holiday magic. Fresh bread and cornettos for days.
This week on RomCom Rescue, we’re breaking down Something From Tiffany’s (2022) — the cozy, charming, slightly chaotic holiday rom-com currently streaming on Amazon Prime.

We get into:
 💍 The Tiffany’s ring mix-up that launches the whole story
🎄 Why NYC at Christmas is basically its own character
🚩 The red flags that are NOT festive — Gary, we’re looking at you
❤️ When holiday magic blinds us to very real relationship issues
🧠 Why you should never be shocked by a proposal in 2025
👧 Daisy: the most emotionally mature person in this entire movie
🔥 And whether Ethan & Rachel have an actual shot… or if we’re just rom-com magic blind

We’re talking chemistry, timing, boundaries, intention, emotional availability, and why “it’s complicated” usually just means no one is steering the damn ship.

If you love:
 — Cozy NYC streets
 — Pastries as a love language
 — Holiday rom-coms with actual nuance
 — And characters who are charming and a little chaotic

…this episode is your December comfort watch in podcast form.

📺 Watch Something From Tiffany’s on Amazon Prime
📲 Vote in our Instagram polls & DM us your hot takes
🎧 Follow/subscribe so you never miss a holiday breakdown

Because at the end of the day…
 💫 We create our own happily ever afters — and yes, order the cornetto.

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This week, we’re heading straight into the French countryside — where the champagne is crisp, the men have fantastic accents, and apparently everyone has access to an impossibly charming bookstore.

Think:
 📍 The French countryside
 📍 Stoic Germans
 📍 Champagne (so much champagne)
 📍 Silly heirs & family drama
 📍 Hidden childhood books
 📍 Bookstore kisses
 📍 And two incredibly emotionally mature adults 

What We Get Into This Episode

❤️ Why this movie restored our faith in rom-coms

After months of mediocre rom-com chaos, Champagne Problems came along like a warm baguette to the soul. Real adults! Healthy communication! No messy exes showing up at the 11th hour!

💬 The “grown-ass-adult energy” of both leads

We talk about why Sydney and Henri might be two of the most refreshingly secure rom-com characters in years.
 No games.
 No nonsense.
 Just actual vulnerability and direct communication.
 Honestly? Revolutionary.

📦 Why people “fall in love” while traveling

Kira unpacks why vacation romance hits different — and why it’s SO much easier to be your real self when you don’t think you’ll see someone again.

☕ Safety PSA: The one moment that wasn’t it

Listen, sleeping with a charming French stranger your first night abroad sounds romantic, but we break down why it's also… not always the safest move.

🛍️ The emotional maturity we loved to see

Including the tiny, beautiful moment when Sydney sets a boundary between Henri and his dad — without inserting herself or playing savior.

🤣 The comedy MVPs: Roberto & Otto

We pull the best lines, including:

• “My body is a temple. Mine is more of a bouncy castle.”
• “I drink champagne, I throw parties, and I know things.”

📚 The big love lesson: Love doesn’t need chaos to be interesting

This movie proves that two kind, grounded humans with good values are compelling enough to carry a story.
Drama optional.
Champagne mandatory.

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Welcome to the Rom-Com Rescue Holiday Extravaganza!  Six holiday rom-coms over the next six weeks!

Conscious uncoupling, gingerbread throwdowns, one last “totally normal” family Christmas, inconvenient new crushes… and Pierson Fode in candy-cane underwear. That’s right. We went there.

This week on RomCom Rescue, Kira and Dr. Izzy break down Netflix’s brand-new 2025 holiday rom-com Merry Little Ex-Mas starring Alicia Silverstone, Oliver Hudson, Jamila Jamil, and Pierson Fode— and let’s just say:
It is was rough for us.

Not magical. Not cozy. Not even Hot Frosty-level cute.

But it is full of relationship red flags, questionable choices, unmatched chaos, and enough emotional immaturity to keep two therapists busy until 2028.

We cover:

🎄 Conscious Uncoupling… or Conscious Unraveling?
Why this movie is basically a PSA for “please don’t date people who aren’t actually divorced yet.”

🍪 The Gingerbread House Incident Heard ‘Round the World
Unregulated emotions, public meltdowns, and one truly tragic cookie crime scene.

❤️ New Crushes, Old Wounds & Pierson Fode
Why he was here. Why he should’ve been an elf. And why none of it made sense.

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 The Kids Who Deserved Better
Divorce logistics, blurred boundaries, holiday blending gone wrong, and the parenting decisions that had us yelling at our TVs.

🌱 Kate’s Villain Era (and Environmental Rage)
Control issues, projection, victim mindset, and why being “right” doesn’t make you good at relationships.

🏡 Why the Ending Doesn’t Actually Fix Anything
Indoor grills are not couples therapy.
Perfume ≠ emotional maturity.
And “let’s just go back to how things were” is not a plot arc.

💡 Love Lessons (If We Squint)
– Don’t date someone mid-divorce.
– Don’t bring new partners home for the holidays when your marriage isn’t actually over.
– Take responsibility for your choices.
– Stop projecting your fears onto your kids.
– And for the love of Santa: get a therapist before you get a rebound.

📉 The Final Verdict:
Tacos: 1/5
Love Lessons: 1/5
Butterflies: 0
Plot Holes: Infinity

Find RomCom Rescue wherever you get your podcasts — Apple, Spotify, Amazon, Google, PocketCasts — all the places.

Next week: We’re tackling Champagne Problems (Netflix, Nov 19) with Minka Kelly & Tom Woznicka.
Fingers crossed it’s better. (It has to be. Right?)

And remember:
We believe we create our own happily ever afters… and please, for the love of god, don’t date people before they’re divorced.

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Down-on-their-luck artists, reality dating chaos, mean girls and sabotage—The Wrong Paris has all the ingredients of a romcom…and almost none of the actual love lessons.

This week on RomCom Rescue, Kira and Dr. Isabelle break down the 2025 Netflix romcom The Wrong Paris starring Miranda Cosgrove and Pierson Fodé—and they’re joined by Nick Thompson from Love Is Blind Season 2 and president of the UCAN Foundation (Unscripted Cast Advocacy Network).

Together, they pull back the curtain on reality dating shows and ask:

Are these setups actually about love—or just entertainment dressed up as a fairytale?

In this episode, we get into:

• The Wrong Paris recap
• Reality dating shows vs real love
• Manipulation, archetypes & editing
• Women competing vs actually connecting
• Paradox of choice & dating apps
• Avoidance, independence & self-protection
• Will Dawn & Trey make it?
• Nick’s reality check on “success stories”

Guest Spotlight: Nick Thompson

Nick Thompson is a former cast member from Love Is Blind Season 2 and the President of the UCAN Foundation (Unscripted Cast Advocacy Network), a nonprofit that supports reality TV contestants’ mental health, rights, and wellbeing while advocating for industry reform.

Watch & Connect

• 🎥 Watch: The Wrong Paris — currently streaming on Netflix
• 🧠 Learn more about UCAN: Go to the UCAN site to support their work with reality TV cast members.
• 💌 Share your hot takes:
  • Was The Wrong Paris relationship goals or a walking red flag parade?
  • Vote in our Instagram polls and DM us your thoughts.

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