A financial psychology expert on the science of contentment.

Morgan Housel is the New York Times Bestselling author of The Psychology of Money and Same As Ever. He's a partner at The Collaborative Fund, serves on the board of directors at Markel and is host of The Morgan Housel Podcast. His new book is The Art of Spending Money: Simple Choices for a Richer Life.

In this episode we talk about:

• What "irrational" spending habits really tell us
• How to manage money ambition with sanity
• How to use scarcity to your advantage
• A useful equation for finding contentment
• The key defense against envy
• How to minimize future regret
• Why young people should check their bank accounts more often
• How to talk to your kids about money
• How to disconnect self-worth from financial worth
• And more

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• The Psychology of Money | Morgan Housel

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How do you stay engaged without getting consumed? That's one of the central questions in this conversation between Dan and high-performance psychologist Dr. Michael Gervais.

Together they explore:

• working at your edge in meditation, panic disorder, and professional life

• why love might be the most important skill we can develop

• navigating rage in difficult political times

• and the Ideal Competitive Mindset — a concept Dan found surprisingly useful.

Originally recorded for Dr. Gervais' podcast, Finding Mastery, this one turned into a real back-and-forth.

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In this episode, Dan takes live questions from subscribers to the 10% with Dan Harris app. Topics include: meditating through grief and serious emotional pain, the hidden addiction to feeling calm during meditation, how to find focus and concentration without straining so hard you get a headache, whether guided meditations are just "training wheels," and how to practice when ADHD or restlessness makes sitting still feel impossible.

Throughout, Dan returns to a central theme: the point of meditation isn't to feel any particular way — it's to relate differently to whatever is already there. To join the live Tuesday sessions, sign up for a free 14-day trial at danharris.com.

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The two practices that helped turn this self described scowling, sarcastic skeptic into an expert meditator.

Devin Berry is a Core Guiding Teacher at the Insight Meditation Society and a residential retreat teacher at IMS and Spirit Rock. A meditator since 1999, his practice is rooted in long-term retreat practice and the mettā and vipassanā teachings of the Insight Meditation tradition.

In this episode we talk about:

• Why mindfulness alone is not enough
• How mettā is part of four related mental skills called the Brahma Viharas
• The story of how and why the Buddha (according to the legend) invented mettā practice
• The role and practice of generosity
• A year long experiment that Devin ran in mettā and danā
• And lastly, how these practices can help us both on and off the cushion

This episode originally aired on July 31st, 2024.

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What it really means to feel loved, and why many people who are loved don't feel it.

Sonja Lyubomirsky is a preeminent happiness expert and Distinguished Professor of Psychology at the University of California. Harry Reis is one of the world's leading experts on relationships and Dean's Professor in the Department of Psychology at the University of Rochester. They are the authors of: HOW TO FEEL LOVED: The Five Mindsets That Get You More of What Matters Most.

In this episode we talk about:

• What it really means to feel loved, and why many people who are loved don't feel it
• An antidote to loneliness
• A broader definition of love beyond romance
• Why feeling loved may be the true key to happiness
• How feeling loved is more in your control than you think
• The "relationship seesaw": lifting others up to feel loved yourself
• The power of curiosity, listening, and reciprocity
• Why dropping emotional armor is necessary for real connection
• Practical tools for feeling more loved
• Tips on asking better questions and showing real enthusiasm
• Why genuine curiosity, reciprocity, and emotional pacing deepen connection more than performative listening

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• Happiness Takes Work | Sonja Lyubomirsky

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A conversation with meditation teacher Jay Michaelson about what to do when you're constantly tired, fried, and running on empty.

If you feel exhausted seemingly all the time—whether it's a low hum or something louder—you're not alone. In this conversation, Jay Michaelson, our Teacher of the Month for February, talks with executive producer DJ Cashmere about the relentless fatigue so many of us are experiencing, and what actually helps.

We talk about:

• Why your first move should be self-compassion (not self-blame)—especially in a culture obsessed with sleep optimization

• The important oscillation between being with difficulty versus reaching for an antidote

• HALT: the acronym that can save you (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired)

• How to investigate exhaustion without trying to fix it right away

• Practical antidotes: screen hygiene, micro-naps, and yes, brain machines

• How our Stone Age brains are being hijacked by tech companies

• Why nap shame is "pure garbage" and you should kiss it goodbye

• The social conditions causing exhaustion that are beyond individual control

The through-line: this isn't about becoming superhuman or gritting your teeth through exhaustion. It's about relating to it differently, being kinder to yourself, and using whatever tools actually work—even if they feel unconventional.

Jay's guided meditations and live AMA sessions are available throughout February in the 10% with Dan Harris app. Find more from Jay at jaymichaelson.substack.com.

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A live Q&A session with meditation teacher Jeff Warren, where Dan and Jeff tackle some of the hardest questions in meditation and life.

Jeff Warren is a meditation teacher, author, and co-founder of the Consciousness Explorers Club. In this live session recorded on Zoom with subscribers to the 10% with Dan Harris app, Jeff and Dan take questions about insomnia, chronic pain, caring for aging parents, existential fears for loved ones, and what to do when your meditation practice feels stuck.

We talk about:

• How to get equanimity around existential fears for your kids (which Jeff calls "the single hardest thing in human life")

• Why acceptance is a terrible word and equanimity is better

• The difference between doomsday spirals and what's actually happening right now

• Practical strategies for insomnia and chronic pain (including why your goal shouldn't be eight hours of unconscious sleep)

• What to do when you feel stuck in your meditation practice (hint: the plateau is normal)

• Three strategies for turning down the volume on your constant mental narrator

Jeff also introduces the practice of asking your meditation a question—literally seeding a question in your mind during practice and seeing what bubbles up. It's surprisingly effective for creative blocks and getting unstuck.

These live sessions happen every week in the 10% with Dan Harris app, where you can meditate with Dan and guest teachers and ask questions in real time. Get the app at danharris.com — there's a free 14-day trial.

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How to become the wisest version of yourself.

Ryan Holiday is one of the world's bestselling living philosophers. His books, including The Daily Stoic, The Obstacle Is the Way, Ego Is the Enemy, Stillness Is the Key and his #1 New York Times bestselling series on the Stoic Virtues, appear in more than forty languages and have sold over 10 million copies.

In this episode we talk about:

• The value of asking pertinent questions
• How to create a second brain
• Finding a teacher for yourself
• How not to be a know it all
• Achieving focus through a morning routine
• How to seek out criticism
• Learning how to die
• And much more

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• Ancient Strategies For Managing Stress And Anxiety

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• Wisdom Takes Work
• The Stoic Virtue Series
• The Daily Stoic
• Dailystoic.com
• Glorious Exploits

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Our bodies are brilliant at healing. An integrative doctor on how to tap that resource.

Victoria Maizes, MD, is the founding executive director of the Andrew Weil Center for Integrative Medicine. Her new book is Heal Faster: Unlock Your Body's Rapid Recovery Reflex to Feel Better—Quicker.

In this episode we talk about:

• What integrative medicine is (and isn't)
• How lifestyle, stress, sleep, and relationships factor into healing
• Why "a pill for every ill" often falls short
• What the Rapid Recovery Reflex is and why the body wants to heal
• The biggest things that block recovery in modern life
• Practical ways to improve our health, ranging from sleep to stress
• Why patients have more power than they think
• How AI can help people ask better questions and work smarter with doctors
• Why what and when you eat matters
• How environmental toxins and social connection quietly shape our health more than we realize
• Tips for handling colds and flu more effectively
• Smarter ways to recover from pain and injuries
• Practical tools for reducing stress and anxiety without immediately turning to medication

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A guided loving-kindness meditation from Jay Michaelson that ditches the phrases and uses visualization instead.

If you've done traditional metta (loving-kindness) practice before, you know it involves bringing people to mind and repeating phrases like "May you be happy, may you be healthy." It's a great practice. But sometimes the words can get you stuck in your head—thinking about what would actually make this person happy, or getting into stories about their suffering.

This version takes away the verbal element. Instead, you work with a visualization: imagining a warm, golden light in your heart center that you can extend outward.

Fair warning: this involves imagination. If that makes you roll your eyes, that's fine. But as the Beatles said, "The love you take is equal to the love you make." It's worth a try.

Jay Michaelson is our Teacher of the Month for February. Find more guided meditations and live sessions with Jay throughout the month in the 10% with Dan Harris app.

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