This episode deals with some of the requirements and criteria that women should establish before allowing a man that is down on his luck to move in with her comma provided that she does not have children in the home. This is something that women can use as a screening measure to see whether or not a man is really up to par before considering allowing him to cohabitate with her. The goal is to establish metrics, boundaries, expectations, and standards for both parties to abide by until the male partner has got on his feet and can contribute to the relationship in a productive manner while retaining his dignity and self-respect through the consideration of his female partner. Thereis not a Magic Bullet that will work for everyone, but this is a start for those that see potential in a man that is down on his luck and to best evaluate whether the effort in pursuing him would be worth it. There are many cynics and critics that would not consider dating or assisting a man that is down on his luck, however,when it comes down to equality, there are women that believe it should only go one way in the sense that a woman should be able to come to a man in any emotional or financial condition and she should be accepted.
However, when the shoe is on the other foot when the woman May want to assist the man throughout a difficult period, She is commonly ridiculed by other women and therefore most women shot away from helping a man that they have an interest in, or subscribe to the notion that women are not supposed to take care of men in general . In this episode we examine some of the things to look for in order for women to better filter whether or not a man is Worthy of her effort, time, and resources. Most women feel in this endeavor because they become intimate with the individual too early in the relationship before he has had the opportunity to establish himself emotionally and financially. These men are commonly classified as hobo sexuals and or marginalized due to economic conditions and therefore most women throw these men out like the baby with the bath water. however, these judgments are made based on her experience or a marginal understanding of developing an individual for a viable relationship.
The podcast does not advocate just picking up someone off the street and the woman taking him in dusting him off and cleaning him up for a relationship. In contrast, it is to consider the possibilities of a better filtering process to determine the true intrinsic value of a person that could be a good potential partner in one's life. Bpundarires and immediate concerns are addressed along with many considerations to risk and reward in the pursuit of happiness through these efforts.
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