The transition to kindergarten brings big changes, including less parental visibility and a drastic shift from play-based to academic learning. Licensed clinical social worker Liz Faria discusses how parents can manage their own anxiety and help children build resilience. Learn about "anti-fragile" parenting, the crucial role of the "Four D's" (Discomfort, Distress, Disappointment, and mild Danger), and why avoiding accommodations is essential for fostering a competent, sturdy child.
Liz Faria is a licensed independent clinical social worker (LICSW) whose focus is working with the parents of anxious children.
Inspirational tip: "Your kids' neuro pathways are being changed through their experiences and not accommodations or avoidance."
Parents set the emotional tone; relaying a sense of calm confidence helps children navigate new stressors.Encourage children to encounter the "Four D’s" (discomfort, distress, disappointment, mild danger) to build resilience.Actively avoid "accommodations" — major parental behavior changes designed to prevent a child’s anxiety.Breaking Free of Child Anxiety and OCD (Book)FlusterClux (Podcast)The Anxious Generation (Book)Small Animals (Book)Hunt, Gather, Parent (Book)Let Grow (Organization)SPACE (Supportive Parenting for Anxious Childhood Emotions) https://www.spacetreatment.net/Inside Out 2 (Movie)https://www.lizfarialicsw.org/[email protected]Fox Hill School Website: https://www.foxhill-school.com/