Are you busy for the Lord? That’s good. So was Martha in her diligent serving. But Jesus graciously showed Martha how her sister Mary had chosen the “better,” the one thing that mattered. It will be good for us to make the same wise choice Mary made.
Luke 10:38-42 …[Jesus] came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said. But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made [NKJV: But Martha was distracted with much serving]. She came to him and asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!” “Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.”
Martha was busy with “serving” Jesus. That is a good thing. Numerous Scriptures speak of the importance of serving the Lord. Nothing that Jesus said here diminishes that. But He pointed out to Martha that her sister Mary had chosen “what is better” — that is, she “sat at the Lord’s feet listening” to Him.
It is possible to be greatly involved in ministry, in active service to the Lord, and yet end up spiritually dry, caught in what one pastor called the “barrenness of busyness.” Effective service to the Lord is not the end in itself, but rather is something that proceeds from something “better” — that is, from a close, personal, relationship with Jesus Christ that you maintain daily. That, not service, not ministry, is the one thing that matters, the one thing from which all other Christian activities draw their inspiration, direction, and effectiveness.