Recorded during Queer Love Fest on Valentines Day 2026; this is a conversation with Ruby Rare about fantasy, hooking up for the first time, body builders, fisting, the creative process and MORE!

Find out more about Ruby and their work here

Find all the Queer Love Co links here

Here are links for the things we mention:

• Lady Fister Zine By Ruby Rare
• Contra Points video essay on Twilight
• My Secret Garden, book by Nancy Friday
• Jodie Marsh's Body building era
• Pumping Iron II: The Women
• Unbound, By Kasia Urbaniak
• Kink Checklist
• 3 Minute Game

Ruby's Zine is available from The Common Press, Gays the Word, Ram Books, or directly from them via email - [email protected]

So much love to Ruby and everyone who joined that day

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