In this episode I respond to a request for love advice! This listener struggles with their self critical thoughts playing like a radio in the background - getting in the way of them connecting with others as they're meeting new people to date - we talk about what that radio station is, why it's there, and how to switch to a different station <3

More info on thought work - https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/the-thought-ladder/

Bunny Michael - https://www.instagram.com/bunnymichael/

Transcript - https://open.substack.com/pub/awholeorange/p/how-to-tune-out-of-your-self-critical?r=452sdv&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true

Links to A Whole Orange stuff - https://linktr.ee/awholeorange

I talk about one train of thought that came out of Shon Fayes book - Love In Exile - and I tell you about a very exciting project I'm working on for June :)

https://linktr.ee/awholeorange

This week we talk about uncertainty, what is it? why is it so sexy? how does it disrupt our attempts to make connection and WHAT CAN WE DO ABOUT IT!

Links to A Whole Orange Matchmaking -

Reccs from the episode:

• Dykes who hike - https://www.instagram.com/dykeswhohikeldn/?hl=en
• Queer Gaming at Badger badger - https://www.instagram.com/queer.gaming/?hl=en
• Tribe - https://www.instagram.com/tribe_incorporated/?hl=en
• Queer chat and craft at the lgbt centre - https://www.instagram.com/ldnlgbtqcentre/?hl=en
• Folk of the Round table - https://www.instagram.com/folk_of_the_round_table/?hl=en

A very little and very rushed episode to mark Valentines Day - in 2019 I started up AWO and minus a year for COVID, it's been 5 years of queer matchmaking! I ran out of time for what I wanted to do, but I wanted to at least mark the birthday :)

Love

Kim xxx

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Have a listen to me using the excuse of Valentines Day to talk about the importance of community and fail to mention what my business offers or any of my events in any way during the entirety of the podcast :)

❤️

Links -

Museum of Transology - https://www.museumoftransology.com/

Outside project Fundraiser - https://chuffed.org/project/transpower?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaZueH6yvIgU8sc1RRgqITk0kzVQcCC6fk_x0Rv9hUALRNVSQ1ie41LGSDA_aem_YOItI8WEJTZ2fk29UWckiQ

A Whole Orange Matchmaking stuff - https://linktr.ee/awholeorange

THE FIRST PROPER ADVICE EPISODE OF THE NEW SEASON - ENJOY!

FIND LINKS HERE - https://linktr.ee/awholeorange

apologies for not so good audio quality

Hello, I had some things to talk about and some thoughts to get out of my head - I talk about queer community, local community, what capitalism is doing to humans and to cities, try and get inside the logic of people who are exploit others and hoard wealth and have a very healthy breakdown :) If you're looking for love advice - look elsewhere this time

I love you all <3

• Looking for support:
  • Go here - https://londonlgbtqcentre.org/
  • Look/call here - https://switchboard.lgbt/

Talking about the butch femme dynamic, why it can seem like the only way to be, and why it isn't! Oh and how to have a one night stand without sacrificing your favourite events & venues

Links - https://linktr.ee/awholeorange

A stripped back podcast to help me get over my perfectionism, the jingle is lost but the wisdom is there - listen for tips on where to start with queer dating, what to expect and also some chatting about relationship slumps and how to get connected again <3

Find everything you could need here - https://linktr.ee/awholeorange

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