Rules, Boundaries, and Other Partners: A Throwback Worth Revisiting

We're pulling this gem from the Viva La Vulva vault — and trust us, it's just as relevant today as the day it dropped. Dr. Quant is bringing back this classic episode because the conversation around non-monogamy hasn't gotten any less necessary. In this episode, we sit down with the esteemed Dr. Joli Hamilton, a relationship coach and research psychologist, who breaks down the real dynamics of navigating open relationships. Dr. Hamilton unpacks the emotional terrain couples face when they step outside traditional relationship structures — including the jealousy, insecurity, and communication hurdles that come with the territory, and how to move through them with honesty instead of shame.

This episode is a masterclass in challenging the scripts we've been handed about love, commitment, and connection. Whether you're polyamory-curious, already in an open relationship, or just want a deeper understanding of how humans actually connect, Dr. Hamilton's insights offer both validation and practical tools. Consider this your permission slip to rethink what a fulfilling relationship can look like — on your own terms.

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