sometimes, we get way too comfortable with unloading our problems into another person, not because they’re great listeners, but because they usually have good advice to solve our problems for us and we love it and are comforted by that. And in them doing so, we may or may not realize it, but we become codependent on them to solve our problems, and this, this could be holding you back in your walk with Christ. Because instead of going to our knees when something goes wrong, we pick up a phone and call that person for help.