Adam and Leonie kick off by talking about Wet on Wellington, the gay sauna in Melbourne they've visited as a space to hang out, relax and chat with mates.

But this episode quickly moves beyond one venue to a bigger conversation: what do event organisers actually owe the people who pay to come? They dig into consent, vetting, safeguarding and scaling, the gaps they've noticed in how sex-on-premises events are run, and why putting safety first isn't optional.

If you're an organiser and you think they're chatting shit, they'd actually love to hear from you.

Come tell them what it's really like, or help figure this out together. Drop a line at [email protected].

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