Episode 3: When the Closet Creaks OpenThe whispers start, and so do the doubts.

In this episode of Red Flags and Green Cards, I’m back from Jamaica, newly engaged, and deep into wedding planning—until the vibe shifts. Suddenly, people around me aren’t just raising their eyebrows… they’re raising real concerns.

Was my fiancé actually into me—or was I just part of his immigration strategy and his cover story?

From my mom’s side-eyes to full-on “sis, are you sure?” moments, I break down the start of a storm I didn’t see coming. Let’s talk rumour mills, denial, and the first cracks in the fairytale.

🎧 Listen now for:• The first red flags people warned me about• How I reacted when folks questioned Roger’s sexuality• What I noticed—but ignored• And the moment that changed everything

🛑 Content Warning: This episode may include discussions of child sexual abuse and domestic violence. Please listen with care. If these topics are difficult for you, feel free to skip this episode or take breaks as needed. Your well-being comes first.

🧠 Mental Health Reminder: These stories are told with humour, but the impact was real. If this episode brings up difficult emotions, please know you're not alone. Talk to someone you trust, or reach out for support — your mental health matters.

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